When we ask a girl for dinner, we usually encounter "Sorry, I don't have time", "I have already made an appointment with someone else", "I have to go home that day"... We all understand what girls say when they say this. The girl rejected you politely. So if you ask a girl for dinner and she says no thank you, what does it mean?
1. The girl does have something to do
Sometimes you may have made an appointment with the girl for dinner, but she does have something to do and cannot keep the appointment. During the chat, she expressed her apology and Thank you for inviting her to dinner. In this case, you have to be more generous and let the girl do her own thing in peace. You can say: I was looking forward to having dinner with you, but you have important things to do first. But I'm still a little angry. Next time you treat me to milk tea or ice cream, you can give me a naughty expression. For now, let the girl do her thing and don't pester her to chat. She should take the initiative to contact you after she is done.
2. Girls are a little embarrassed
Some girls feel that it is a little awkward to go out to eat just after they have met you. Sorry, don't think that she really doesn't want to go out at this time. Because an introverted girl thinks that immediately agreeing to go out with you will appear more direct, and she will still hesitate for a while, so you can change the topic or ask her out in another way. Maybe she doesn’t want to go to dinner with you, but she will want to. You go shopping, playing, or other things together, or choose something she likes to do and experience it with her. Try to casually understand the reason, or invite a few times, or happily say it doesn't matter and you can go next time. This will increase her liking for you, and she may be willing to go out or really be willing to go out with you next time.
3. Girls don’t like you
If a girl doesn’t like you from the beginning, then she will feel There is no need to keep in contact with you. If you ask her to have dinner, she will reject you because she feels that since she doesn't like or be interested, there is no need to pester or contact her. Moreover, eating with someone you don't like feels like you are taking advantage of others. She will feel that she owes you, so she usually won't agree. Such girls generally have more upright views. You need to first understand the specific reasons why she said no thank you. If you don't make the relationship stalemate, you will still have a good chance of dating her out later.
4. The girl directly rejects you
If you have clearly made an appointment with the girl for dinner before, she But he immediately broke the appointment without saying any apology or talking about making up the appointment next time. At this time, you don’t need a good attitude, just say um or OK. Respond coldly without offending her. But there is no such relationshipYou need to cherish it, so why not point it out directly: You make me uncomfortable. Just do it your own way. Show your politeness appropriately and convey that you understand interpersonal relationships. I treat you well based on your politeness. Rather than being brainless, what this conveys is that you have low emotional intelligence and you don't know how to get along with girls, and you will be looked down upon even more. When encountering this situation, it is necessary to stop losses in time.
When you ask a girl for dinner and she says no thank you, she mainly means the above four kinds. You need to choose according to the actual situation between you and the girl. Find out what's going on with her.
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