The New Year has just passed, and many of my friends must have experienced blind dates during the Chinese New Year. Was it successful? When I was reading the comments in the background today, I found a fan leaving a message asking: How should we chat after meeting on a blind date? Today we Let’s start a discussion around this topic.
Can speak, can answer whatever you want to ask, and the other person will tell you naturally.
Example:
A boy said: I am 25 years old, how old are you?
However, you know, girls of their age basically don’t like people very much. Ask about your age directly and straightforwardly, and some girls will answer out of politeness.
The girl said: Well, 23 years old.
The boy said: Oh, you are two years younger than me. Do you have any brothers or sisters?
It is true that you need to know some basic information when going on a blind date, but asking too straightforward questions will inevitably lead to confusion. The atmosphere was very awkward.
The girl said: No.
The boy said: Me neither. What do your parents do?
The girl said: I feel a little uncomfortable, so I’ll leave first.
This kind of question is too straight, just like checking household registration. Girls have no way to continue chatting with you. When going on a blind date, the most difficult thing is how to start the conversation and how to solve it. If this problem is solved, subsequent chatting and development will be much simpler.
Example:
The boy said: You should only be about 20 years old, right?
The girl said: No, I am already 23.
The boy said: He looks so young and energetic. My brother must have loved me since I was little, haha.
The girl said: No way, I am an only child, and I have always wanted to have a brother.
The boy said: Haha, then I have always wished that I had a sister. I would take her to eat delicious food every day.
The girl said: Pfft, so you came to see your sister today?
The boy said: Haha, you led me astray.
……Humor brings us closer and relaxes us.
After asking about the basic information, you need to start to understand the girl’s hobbies, work, etc., and look for commonalities and common topics between you and her.
The boy said: Do you usually eat a lot of desserts?
The girl said: It’s okay, what’s wrong?
The boy said: I talked to you two days ago My friend bought some xx desserts online and will give you some as a gift tomorrow.
The girl said: This is not good, I have to go to work tomorrow.
The boy said: It’s okay, I’ll send it to you tomorrow.
This is to find a reason to contact someone, and it is generally not easy to refuse food.
The boy said: It’s still early, why don’t we go to xx place together? The xx there is very good. Let’s go and have a look. It won’t waste too much of your time.
Having said this, people who are fine usually won’t refuse. When taking actual actions, you must control your time and put integrity first.
The girl said: I found that you are very good at speaking. Is it related to your work?
The boy said: It is indeed the case. Working in XX has developed your eloquence and character.
Then continue the work topic, and the chat should naturally transition to the next topic.
Topics come from life. You can also talk about hot topics in daily life. You can see some characteristics of people in chatting.
Is it easy to chat like this? So have you learned it?
