Rural men cannot find girlfriends. On the surface, they attribute the reason for being single to the fact that they are not handsome and have no money. But this is not the fundamental reason why rural men cannot find girlfriends. The main reasons why they can't find girlfriends are the following:
Why can't rural men find girlfriends?
1. Looking for a man with good conditions
Many rural men have limited conditions, but their requirements are Very high, I want to find a place with good conditions.
I am obviously over forty years old, but I insist on pursuing a girl in her twenties and thirties, and I don’t have such conditions, how can I possibly find a girlfriend?
2. The issue of betrothal gifts
In today’s society, the cost for people to get married is getting higher and higher, and the phenomenon of high betrothal gifts has appeared in both cities and rural areas. For many farm men, their own financial conditions are limited, and this high betrothal gift is naturally the reason why they cannot find a girlfriend.
3. The problem of more men than women
Some rural women have gone to work in the city , unwilling to come back, they look down on the men in the countryside, and the men in the city look down on them, so there are more men than women, and the pressure of competition has increased.
4. Don’t understand girls’ thoughts
Even if they have no money, no house, no car, why can some people find girlfriends while others can’t? The problem What's the key?
Although some rural men are in good condition, they still can't find a girlfriend because they don't understand women and don't know how to chat.
Commonly known as straight men!
In fact, when we say that girls value material things, it is too absolute. Women are emotional animals, and they need a strong sense of security. This sense of security It needs to be satisfied from two aspects, one is material and the other is spiritual.
If you don’t have material things, you can also satisfy her spiritually and give her a sense of safety and security.
Some women, once you conquer her, she is willing to accompany you through hard times.
Therefore, don’t focus on whether you have money or whether you are handsome or not.
4. Thinking level
After some people experience failure, they sum up their experience and find out what they are not good at. Where to make up for it. Some people complain loudly about the injustice of society and just love it.
This is the result of different thinking.
To be realistic, some people think that chasing girls requires money, so go and make money and find ways to make money. I can do it.This is a real man!
Therefore, it is now difficult for rural men to choose a spouse. Social factors certainly have a certain influence, but the more reason is that they have given up on themselves and are unwilling to work hard or strive for progress. Does not change.
