Many girls call scumbags and scumbags, but if they are asked to choose between an honest man and a scumbag, they will still choose the scumbag without any hesitation. As an honest man and a good man, have you ever thought about why girls like scumbags?
Actually , Scumbags are those people who have some excellent qualities, but have corrupt thoughts and morals. So, it’s not that a good man loses to a scumbag. Rather, we are not as good as others in some of the qualities necessary for love. This has led to many girls who are willing to rush in one after another even though they know that the other person is a scumbag. But good men and honest people who do not have the qualities of love are indifferent.
Do you understand, friends, we must learn from the strengths of scumbag men to make up for our own shortcomings in lack of love qualities.
What are the characteristics of scumbag men that attract girls?
We can think about what scumbag men usually look like.
When a girl comes to visit her aunt, the scumbag will know what to do and what to do to warm her heart in one glance.
As for good men and honest people, they only say "what's wrong with you" and "drink more hot water".
Let’s think about it, if it were us, who would choose to take careful care and a gentle greeting.
For example:
Scumbags are like chocolate-flavored men, and good men are like chocolate-flavored chocolates. Aside from taste, everyone definitely knows that chocolate is delicious.
But we all know that when we judge whether something is delicious or not, we first do not taste it, but the taste it conveys to us.
Here you can refer to durian, which smells bad but is actually delicious, but few people eat it. Therefore, if we want to attract girls, we must first thoroughly learn the essential trait of a scumbag in a relationship: "understanding girls."
In addition, we cannot adapt or copy. In order to get Xiaohong, the scumbag learned that Xiaohong loves romance, so he filled the trunk with flowers to show his love and pursue success.
In order to pursue Xiaolu, you also filled the trunk with flowers, but in the end you made no progress. As everyone knows, Xiaolu pursues pragmatism and does not like romance. To understand her is to know what she thinks and what she wants, and then you will be satisfied with it and meet it.
Everyone has different preferences due to different growth experiences. Some people like romance, some people like pragmatism, and some people like companionship.
When we understand them thoroughly, and then give them to them one by one based on their preferences. In this way, it is difficult not to be liked by her. On the contrary, if we seek medical treatment randomly, we will hear the familiar words: You are a good person.
So, thinkTo successfully catch the girl you like, you need to understand her needs. This is the characteristic of a real scumbag that attracts girls.
Finally, let me make it clear that although scumbag men are more popular than good men and honest people at certain times, we strongly discourage the scumbag behavior of scumbag men, and they do not attract girls because they are "scumbags" , but because they understand the characteristics of women, so brothers, don’t learn in the wrong direction.
