Many relationships do not mean that both parties can be together if they fall in love. Even if both parties recognize each other, if the other party's parents do not agree, they may still object and even let the other party go on a blind date. So what should you do if your girlfriend tells you that she is going on a blind date?
1. Make it clear what your girlfriend is thinking< /h2>
If you know that your girlfriend is going on a blind date and she tells me, there may be two situations:
The first is that your girlfriend reassures you that she should tell her such an important thing. I'm telling you in disguise that she won't go on a blind date behind your back. Even if she wants to go on a blind date, she will tell you that she is just coping with the situation to make her parents calm down. She still loves you and is willing to be with you. .
The second situation is that your girlfriend wants to see your reaction. Your girlfriend is about to go on a blind date with someone else. What will you do as a man? If you ignite your fighting spirit and start to fight and change, then your girlfriend's goal will be achieved. She just wants to arouse your fighting spirit. If you are still indifferent, then your girlfriend will be disappointed in you. You don't care at all whether she goes on a blind date with others, and she will feel that you have given up on her.
No matter what your girlfriend means, as a man, you should work hard to change and make your girlfriend’s family accept you, instead of just giving up on yourself and saying that they don’t like you.
2. Don’t let your girlfriend go on a blind date
Regardless of whether your girlfriend wants you to rest assured about her Whether it's just to deal with your parents' blind date, or your girlfriend wants to see your reaction, you can't let your girlfriend go on a blind date. How should I put it? If you go on a blind date with a partner, you are actually trying to tread two boats. Even if you reconcile in the future, you may become a thorn in the middle. Moreover, it is easy for you to doubt whether your girlfriend has done something sorry for you. Once suspicion arises, it will easily grow into a towering tree and affect your future relationship.
3. Convince the girl’s parents to allow you to be together
Your biggest problem now is not that your girlfriend wants to You went on a blind date with someone else, but the most fundamental problem is that the girl’s parents don’t agree with you being together. At this time, you need to make them accept you as much as possible. One is that you have to study hard, and the other is that you have to behave in front of them, and then let your girlfriend say nice things to ease the relationship, and the relationship will slowly ease.
Telling me that your girlfriend is going on a blind date is actually a sign that she still loves you. Otherwise, your girlfriend will secretly go on a blind date and abandon you when she meets a suitable blind date, and you She was kept in the dark from beginning to end and thought she broke up with you because of her parents. So why should she bother to tell you?
