Many boys actually go on a blind date with full confidence, but the results are usually unsatisfactory. When they first meet a girl on a blind date, the girl seems relatively cold, which makes the boys feel that there is no need to persist. Go down.
Why most girls on blind dates are very cold
1. Girls on blind dates have more judgment rights
During the blind date process, everyone is emphasizing: As a boy, you should take the initiative. This rule is naturally correct and cannot be refuted. And no matter whether a girl is satisfied or not after a blind date, all she has to do or can do is wait: wait for the boy to send a message, wait for the boy to ask her out, and wait for the boy to send her a gift.
It is not particularly difficult for boys to be proactive. The problem is that many girls who go on a blind date will have another blind date the next day or even that night, and then there will be another boy. Make a chat and date package with her.
Girls have nothing to blame for this phenomenon. Everyone can make a choice when they are single. But no matter how proactive boys are in this situation, they will only become the ones chosen.
What can be seen is that among young people in first- and second-tier cities, the proportion of blind dates guided by relatives has gradually decreased. At the same time, in some third- and fourth-tier cities and below, almost all blind dates are It is the only way to meet the opposite sex of the right age. There are relatively few girls in these cities, so there will naturally be more choices on a macro scale.
Blind dates are good for boys, giving everyone a chance to communicate fairly, but the passive nature of women makes blind dates look like giving boys a chance to chase her. Then naturally stood at a higher level. But having said that, if a girl is too proactive during a blind date, the boy may also lose interest.
So, if you are a boy and can’t stand the indifference of girls on blind dates, you can choose to go to first- and second-tier cities to find exciting encounters.
2. Blind date is actually an interview session
In fact, it is not that girls today are cold and passive in blind dates, but It is the blind date model that sets the stage for the interview at the very beginning, and the interviewer is often the woman. For the assessor, think back to when we first participated in the job interview. If we did not pass the assessment, there would be no chance for a re-examination. Therefore, when the woman is the assessor, she has strict requirements, but she is in different age groups. The focus will also be different.
Before the age of 24, it is generally based on looks. After the age of 24, the emphasis on material conditions will increase. After the first meeting, the woman’s subconscious has already Good score for us.
First, if you continue to contact us on WeChat after you have met in person, the response will be extremely cold, eh, once every two hours, and we will definitely not give you a chance to meet a second time
No. 2, combinedIf your character's shortcomings are relatively cold, it depends on your performance in subsequent chats on WeChat. If you can't let him discover your value quickly, he will only be qualified in the end. At this time, your chatting attitude is relatively normal, and he will be dismissed if he is willing to chat with you. Next time you meet. But if you make a mistake during this period, you will basically lose the opportunity to enter the fish pond.
If the girl on the blind date is satisfied, she will be enthusiastic and cooperative when chatting on WeChat, and her tolerance for you will become higher. She can go directly to the fish pond to see how satisfied you are with your later performance. After entering the fish pond, she will take the initiative to guide you, because you have become her prey. In most cases, the vast majority are unqualified and qualified with shortcomings, the minority are qualified and satisfied, and there are basically no very satisfied ones.
Summary: Blind dates are good for boys, giving them a chance to communicate fairly, but for women it becomes Giving the other party a chance to chase you will naturally increase your worth. If a girl is very satisfied and takes the initiative towards a boy, the boy may lose interest.
