If you feel good getting along with a girl, then physical contact will naturally follow. But in fact, the physical contact between boys and girls also develops step by step, not in one step. Let me share with you the level of physical contact between boys and girls, and the relationship with girls should be deepened step by step.
1. Accidental physical contact
When you first start contacting a girl, if you want to have physical contact with a girl without causing her to resent you, then you can choose accidental physical contact. Ways to contact girls. Because it is a casual time, girls will not think that your physical contact has obscene or ulterior motives, and it will not make girls reject you. Moreover, accidental physical contact will naturally create an ambiguous feeling between you and the girl, which is conducive to your further development. As for the specific types of casual physical contact, for example:
It is normal for you and a girl to walk on the street together to eat after a date. You are in a state of contact, but suddenly someone is riding a bicycle and speeds past the girl. You subconsciously hold the girl's shoulders and move her to a safe side. The purpose is of course to protect the girl. In such a situation, a girl will not feel that your physical contact offends her. On the contrary, she will feel that you care about her and are subconsciously protecting her. Of course, when the girl safely directs you to return to the previous safe state in time, the girl will not think that you are trying to take advantage of her, and her affection for you will double.
2. Courtesy physical contact
If you have experienced casual physical contact and the girl has not shown any rejection of you, then you can arrange for courteous physical contact. How to do it specifically? For example:
After you make an agreement with a girl, you pretend to be joking and want to high-five her or hook up with her. This kind of physical contact does not seem to be intentional on your part, and the girl will not reject it.
Or if you are having a meal with a girl and you tell her that there is rice in the corner of her mouth, but the girl can't wipe it off, you try to help her wipe it off. You want to give the girl a feeling that you are really helping her. It's not that you want to take advantage of her.
3. Sexual physical contact
If you want to have physical contact with a girl, you can actually find a reason. Justify your physical contact so that girls won't be offended. For example:
If you say to a girl, "Your fingers seem to be quite long, let's compare them." At this time, you can just reach out and compare the lengths of her palms against her palms.
Or you can tell a girl, "I heard that girls with clever skills have more beautiful hands" and ask her to show you her hands. At this time, you can look at her hands seriously.
However, compared with the previous two, rational physical contactThis type of physical contact is of a higher level and can only be operated if the girl has a certain liking for you. If you don't recognize the girl, she may not cooperate with you at all.
IV. Active physical contact
If you are sure that a girl has a crush on you, and the first three If all kinds of physical contact have been carried out and the girl has no intention of rejecting you, you can try active physical contact next. What is active physical contact? Just like a boyfriend and girlfriend holding hands and hugging, it is a natural thing. In this case, you are actually almost a boyfriend and girlfriend, but you have not officially confirmed the relationship. If a girl does not rule out active physical contact with you, then You're not far away from making your relationship official either.
