Some boys will encounter this situation when they are in love. It is natural to hold hands and hug each other, and the relationship is good, but as long as they ask for a kiss, they will be rejected. What is the reason? Encountered How should we deal with this situation?
Maybe I don’t really like you
If your girlfriend If I don’t really like you, how can I let you kiss me? So think carefully about the relationship experience between the two. In fact, it is easy to feel whether your girlfriend really likes you. For example, during the relationship, it is just you. The initiative is only your contribution and your dominance...
Maybe she is shy
Some girls are shy, so they kiss more abruptly. She might not be able to adapt. For shy girls, we should grasp the timing of the first kiss. It may be easier to accept it if we try to kiss her when the environment is quieter and the atmosphere is more ambiguous.
Maybe more conservative
People have different ideas. Different girls have different ideas. Some girls are more open-minded and can do anything when they are in love. Some girls are more traditional and think they can only do things like holding hands and hugging. Therefore, you can try to improve her more traditional concepts, and then it will be easier for you to kiss.
Maybe not ready yet
In the process of love, there is a buffer period, for this kind of more The girl may not be ready for further behavior, or you may be too impatient. Just try it after a while.
In the fairy tale, the prince kissed Sleeping Beauty when she was sleeping, without consulting Sleeping Beauty. With one kiss from him, Sleeping Beauty woke up and instead of accusing him of sexual harassment, she fell in love with him. Taking without telling is stealing, kissing without telling is stealing. And those boys who want to honestly ask girls "Can I kiss you" have already failed halfway when they say this.
When breaking through a barrier and engaging in intimate behavior for the first time, both parties will feel a little shy, reserved and nervous. If a boy asks a girl, "Can I kiss you?" he is giving the girl the responsibility to break through this barrier. How ungentlemanly it is to let a girl be responsible for breakthrough!
If a boy is in charge of her when she needs it, Without asking a word, they just kissed. He helped the girl break through the barrier of shyness and helped the girl do things she wanted to do but didn't dare to do. Also, before the two parties are intimate for the first time, no one dares to say that they completely know the other person's reaction. Kissing without asking is putting the risk of rejection on one's own head.
No wonder a man who dares to do this is often seen as brave and masculine in the minds of girls, while boys who are too cautious and "respect women" are regarded as timid and cowardly. Moreover, it felt so romantic to just kiss like this without asking. It was like opening a box at Christmas and finding a gift she hadn't expected.
Therefore, before kissing a girl, you should arouse her emotions. When your hearts are getting closer, just kiss her directly instead of asking her "Can I kiss you?" "Out of reserve, girls may reject you.
