Many women obviously have a very happy family and have a good relationship with their husbands, but they still chat with others online without telling their husbands, or even cheat. What is the reason?
1. Relieve stress and relieve anxiety
Create a small space outside your own life that can temporarily take you away from the real world. Have some fun while staying safe, break up the routine, or take a break from stress and anxiety.
This is similar to the mechanism of men playing games. They create a virtual environment, establish a new identity, receive tasks and experience excitement.
During the process of playing, the body will secrete dopamine, which makes people feel happy and eliminates worries. Moreover, you can quit at any time without affecting real life.
2. Satisfy vanity
Women generally have vanity, and vanity can improve their self-esteem. Level of recognition. Moreover, vanity has diffuse characteristics, that is to say, no matter what the source of vanity is, it can make people feel good about themselves in all aspects of life and work, and make people feel more competent in everything they do.
However, vanity is often not easy to satisfy, but fighting in the virtual world has become an easy source of vanity for women.
Although some women just chat about sex and do not actually cheat, the dopamine secreted by doing so can bring her stimulation and satisfaction.
3. Prove charm
Everyone is afraid of old age, and everyone has age anxiety, especially Women, subconsciously dissatisfied with aging, will do things to make themselves feel young and energetic.
For example, attracting strangers of the opposite sex is a quick way to make oneself feel energetic and charming. The feeling of not getting old is sometimes like a shot in the arm, helping them to fight against the helplessness and reality of reality. emptiness.
When you meet such a woman, it is recommended not to let her go too far, but also not to be too pushy.
You can discuss this situation with her openly and honestly, don’t blame her, just let her talk about her psychological needs for doing this, express your understanding, and then tell her that you don’t agree with him acting in this way. If you give yourself a psychological massage, you will feel uncomfortable.
Then the two people discuss other alternatives, such as increasing some interaction between husband and wife, or finding a positive pastime that is beneficial to physical and mental health, such as cultivating a sports hobby and participating in some hobbies. Clubs and more.
