Quarrels are an inevitable problem that couples will encounter. Sometimes we may quarrel over trivial matters, which can even cause your girlfriend to cry. When this happens, as boyfriends, how should we deal with it? Suggestions will be given below from several aspects.
1. Calm down
When your girlfriend is angry and crying, the first thing to do is to stay calm. Don't let your emotions affect your judgment, let alone make her sad. You can leave the scene temporarily and find a quiet place to calm down, allowing both parties time to calm down.
2. Care and comfort
After calming down, go back to your girlfriend and express your love for her care and comfort. Ask her if she needs some time alone or needs your company. Tell her in gentle words that you care about her feelings and are willing to listen to her.
3. In-depth communication
When your girlfriend’s mood is slightly stable, you can try to have in-depth communication. Ask her what she is angry about and how she really feels. While listening, do not interrupt her and give her enough space to express her thoughts and emotions.
4. Reflect on yourself
Both parties are often responsible for quarrels. As boyfriends, we also need to reflect on whether we have done anything wrong. Review the entire quarrel process, identify possible problems you may have, and be willing to take the initiative to correct them. This will show your girlfriend your growth and progress.
5. Give an apology and a commitment
If you find that you were indeed at fault, don’t hesitate to apologize. Apologize to your girlfriend sincerely and promise to correct your mistakes and avoid similar quarrels from happening again. At the same time, you must also respect your girlfriend's feelings and accept whether she is willing to forgive you.
6. Give time and space
Sometimes your girlfriend may need some time and space to calm down. . Respect her choice and give her enough time and space to process her emotions. During this time, you can pay appropriate attention to her, but don't invade her personal space too much.
7. Rebuilding trust and intimacy
Fighting will have a certain impact on the trust and intimacy between couples. After your girlfriend is emotionally stable, you can try to work out a plan to solve the problem with her and work together to implement it. Rebuild trust and intimacy with each other through positive actions.
8. Learn to listen and be tolerant
The quarrel is because both parties have different opinions and needs. Learning to listen and be tolerant is the key to solving the problem. In future relationships, you should pay more attention to listening to your girlfriend's thoughts and opinions, and respect her choices. At the same time, we must also learn to tolerate her shortcomings and shortcomings.Be content, understand and accept with love.
When a girlfriend is angry and crying, as boyfriends we should stay calm, care and comfort, communicate deeply, reflect on ourselves, give apology and commitment, give time and space, rebuild trust and intimacy, learn to listen and tolerate . Only through these methods can we better deal with quarrels and maintain our relationship with each other.
