Men all hope to find a considerate girlfriend, but in fact, many women in real society are relatively strong. Such women will still behave very strongly even if they become a man's girlfriend or wife. . It's okay if a man is used to being dominated by his girlfriend, but if a man is not willing to be dominated by his girlfriend, or if his girlfriend is too strong and hurtful with her words, no man should be able to bear it. Let’s talk about what should I do if my girlfriend talks too strongly and hurts others?
1. See if your girlfriend is right
In fact, it is normal to have problems and conflicts in the relationship between men and women. The key is whether anyone is unreasonable in the relationship, whether it is a man or not. As a woman, as long as she makes trouble unreasonably, the relationship will not last long.
@江江江江ah: My girlfriend is an extremely strong person, and she always speaks out loud. Based on the principle that everything she says is right, this does not affect my liking for her. In fact, sometimes although a girlfriend is unreasonable, (quietly), she is not really unreasonable. She just wants to see you choose her between reason and her. She was unequivocal on important matters, so even though I might feel uncomfortable at the time, I still loved her and could continue with her.
Therefore, no matter whether your girlfriend is strong or harsh, as long as what she says makes sense, listen to her first. Then tell her your suggestions and opinions about her and what you don't like about her in a gentle and doting manner. Of course, if your girlfriend is forceful and even unreasonable in everything big and small, and if you still tolerate such a girlfriend, you may not have a good life in the future. Finally, when you have a girlfriend, cherish it!
2. Tell your girlfriend more about your inner thoughts
If a man feels that his girlfriend is too strong in speaking When you hurt others and feel uncomfortable, try to tell your girlfriend your inner thoughts as much as possible. Let your girlfriend realize the problems in the way she is currently getting along with you. Only if she really loves you will she slowly change for you.
Of course, there are many reasons for the strong personality of my girlfriend. It is difficult to change after so many years, but it can also be changed bit by bit, the premise is the heart! inside! have! right! square! If your girlfriend can realize that such words and deeds will have very bad consequences, give yourself more psychological construction. When she wants to control you strongly, think about how unhappy you will be if she insists on doing this. , this is not a good relationship, etc., etc., she will slowly change. If your girlfriend feels that she is right, then congratulations on breaking up, because she doesn't care at all whether you have any sad problems. Why are you talking to a girlfriend like this?
In fact, the main point of the problem of "girlfriend is too strong and speaks hurtfully" is not that the girlfriend is strong, but that the girl friendFriends say hurtful things. It can only be said that your girlfriend did not consider your mood before speaking. It may be because she has low emotional intelligence and did not expect it, or it may be that she does not care about you at all. As for how to choose, you should know it when you see this.
