?When other people’s boyfriends and girlfriends quarrel, as bystanders, how should we deal with it? Here are some suggestions:
1. Stay calm
When a boyfriend or girlfriend is quarreling at someone else’s house, The first thing we have to do is stay calm. Don't be influenced by their emotions and don't join in the arguments. A calm attitude can help us analyze problems better and find solutions to them.
2. Don’t take sides
As bystanders, we should try to remain neutral and don’t take sides. Everyone has their own opinions and feelings, and we cannot side with one side just because they make more sense or are more emotional. Instead, we should listen to both sides objectively and try to understand each other's positions.
3. Provide appropriate support
Although we cannot directly intervene in their disputes, we can provide some appropriate support. For example, we can listen patiently to their complaints and dissatisfaction, and provide some comfort and encouragement. Sometimes just having someone to listen can be a comfort.
4. Avoid fueling quarrels
When other people’s boyfriends and girlfriends quarrel, we should try our best to avoid fueling quarrels. Do not provide any party with inciting comments or actions. Instead, we can try to lighten the mood, guide them to calm down, and find ways to solve the problem.
5. Provide suggestions and solutions
If both parties are willing to listen to our suggestions, we can provide some pertinent suggestions and solutions. For example, we can encourage them to communicate, understand each other's needs and expectations, and find ways to compromise. At the same time, we can also remind them to stay respectful and rational and avoid verbal harm.
6. Respect their privacy
When dealing with other people’s quarrels between boyfriend and girlfriend, we must respect their privacy. Don't make their quarrels public, and don't reveal their private affairs to others. Everyone has the right to protect their privacy and we should respect that.
7. Encourage seeking professional help
If the quarrel between boyfriend and girlfriend is so serious that it cannot be resolved on their own, we can encourage them to seek professional help. For example, they can consult a psychological counselor or couple relationship expert for better solutions and advice.
When other people’s boyfriends and girlfriends quarrel, we as bystanders should remain calm and neutral, and provide appropriate support and advice. At the same time, we must respect their privacy and encourage them to seek professional help when necessary. In these ways, we can help them better deal with their arguments and maintain their relationships.
