No matter how much you love each other and how passionate you are during the love period, after a long time, you will gradually enter a dull period. This is when it is easiest to break up. What should I do if my girlfriend says she doesn’t like me when my relationship enters a dull period?
1. Maintain residual value and establish new ones Impression
Many boys become particularly decadent after a breakup, putting feelings first and panicking. When a boy puts down his bottom line for a woman, it is impossible to gain the respect of the woman. If you no longer have feelings, you can no longer have a job. The more you feel self-defeating, the more you must hold on to what you have, because this is your only remaining value. After breaking up, you can post more positive news about yourself in the circle of friends. Even if you have been blocked or deleted, you should still post it to prepare for the subsequent reconnection and arouse her curiosity, so that your relationship can slowly break the ice.
2. Create mystery and attract curiosity to take the initiative to approach you
A major taboo in recovery is to contact you If you are with someone, you can't bear to separate. You are afraid that the other person will slip away, so you want to contact her all the time. This will only make her think that you are entangled with her.
Once a woman loses her freedom in a relationship, she will definitely try her best to stay away from you. Therefore, the more you restore contact, the slower it will be to create your sense of mystery and the itch when you are passionately in love. Feeling:
Chatting time should be limited and topics should be well-scaled; women will like men who give her something to look forward to, and they can talk about any topic as long as it can interest her;
< p> Don’t post to WeChat Moments every day. Every time you post to WeChat Moments, women should have the desire to click on the picture to enlarge it. This is related to her personality. For example, if she likes to travel, she may not be interested in eating; so The circle of friends should be tailored to your liking.Women will save their exes who make them envious. They will imagine that if they had not broken up, you would have a different ending now. But if you are not doing well, then she may be lucky to be with you. When breaking up, people have the characteristic of seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages. The more secretive updates you post in Moments, the more curious she will be about you. She might even ask for information about you through her friends without you having to go find her. If you find that your friends contact you more, then Maybe he was helping her get information.
3. Inflame the other person’s emotions and seize the opportunity
After you meet, you must take advantage of the opportunity When chatting with her, you should be more open-minded at the beginning of the chat, such as: How about after the breakup, feel free, I don't care about your life, just let it go to heaven, right? This way you will both be more relaxed.
After the conversation, you can tentatively talk about the breakup and ask her about the breakup at that time.Think about it, and then talk about your feelings. Remember, don't talk about the specific events of the breakup, as this will only cause you to argue. You can also take her to recall the moments when she touched you, which is also a disguised way of reminding her of what she has done for you, and also letting her know that you are very touched by everything she has done, and it also makes you love her very much.
Be sure to remember not to mention your efforts, otherwise the woman will feel that you are relying on her. If you make her feel valuable, she will be willing to re-accept you for your approval. Only by igniting her emotions will she realize how good you are and take the initiative to win you back.
Recovery is not an easy task. If you don’t have good skills and methods, the road to recovery is destined to be long and difficult. When a problem arises, you must learn to use appropriate methods and rational thinking to solve the problem. Therefore, you must understand the psychology of both parties and make a basic judgment on each other's attitudes and psychology, otherwise you may miss your true destiny.
