Occasionally, I hear boys complain that their girlfriends are too clingy. She insists on dragging them along when shopping to buy clothes or out to eat, which is very annoying. Is it really okay when my clingy girlfriend suddenly stops being clingy? Why did my girlfriend suddenly stop being with me?
1. The psychology of girlfriends being clingy
Generally speaking, girls will generally keep their attitude toward ordinary friends. Due to distance, she will only act clingy to her close and trusted boyfriend. She likes to be able to do everything with her boyfriend. She hopes to spend more time with her boyfriend, and her eyes are full of you. Boys, please don't feel annoyed at this time, because this is a sign that your girlfriend loves you, and other boys may not be able to do anything to make their girlfriend stick with you.
If your clingy girlfriend suddenly stops being clingy, you need to reflect on whether you have done something to make your girlfriend afraid to be clingy. She longs to be with you. They are together all the time, but dare not show it. She is afraid that the person she likes will find it burdensome, and she is afraid that the love that is too restrictive will make people breathless. But in fact, she is like this when she really cares. She is childish, impulsive and desperate. She wants to rush to you at any time and tell you that she misses you. Even if they have only been apart for a few minutes, boys should cherish such a clinging girlfriend.
2. Reasons why your girlfriend is suddenly not clingy
1. Disappointed in you
If a boy shows impatience with his girlfriend's clinginess time and time again, it means that he doesn't like such a clingy girlfriend; or you have disappointed your girlfriend time and time again, making her no longer trust you. , no longer stick to you. These will make your girlfriend no longer stick to you, and she may leave you at any time. Think about what happened between you, did you let her down? Did you give her the cold shoulder? Does she have some seemingly innocuous complaints against you for a long time? All outbreaks are not sudden, but are cumulative over time.
2. I don’t love you anymore
Girls are relatively emotional people. When they like someone, they want to be by their side all the time; if they don’t like someone, they will also Can instantly turn around and become a stranger. If your clingy girlfriend suddenly stops being clingy, it may be that she has slowly withdrawn from your life and has fallen in love with someone else without you even realizing it.
3. Use retreat to make progress
Sometimes if you say that your girlfriend is clingy too many times, your girlfriend will reflect on it and slowly start to stop being clingy. people. At this time, boys will feel a sense of gap. Why are their girlfriends who were so clingy now not clingy at all? They just wonder whether their girlfriends don't love them anymore and start paying attention to their girlfriends. In fact, this is a way for girls to retreat before making progress. Only when boys feel the loss will they cherish it.
Summary: It is certainly abnormal for a clingy girlfriend to suddenly stop being clingy. If your girlfriend’s clinginess does not delay your business but only disturbs your game time, it is actually harmless. Don't wait until she really doesn't want to cling to you anymore before looking for the reason.
