In real life, most of us will meet our significant other at the right time. After getting along for a period of time, we finally entered the palace of marriage. However, many problems may arise after marriage. Many people don't know whether their marriage is happy or not. Let’s take a look at the manifestations of couples’ unhappy marriages!
1. Excessive passivity
When love enters marriage, most girls will choose to strictly control men. For example, girls call boys every few hours and ask them to report what they are doing, and even ask them to make calls, listen to calls, send text messages, and come back immediately; even after breaking up, girls will like to bombard them with text messages. Threaten a man's past commitments and force him to do things for him. Although girls are naturally insecure, they like to control boys and let them do what you like.
However, boys are born with a spirit of exploration and love freedom. They get bored when their freedom is controlled. Perhaps in the early stage, the other party will suppress his dissatisfaction with love. As the saying goes, paper cannot contain fire. The more you oppress, the more the other party wants and wants to fly freely. So, don’t over-pressure and control the other person. If no one feels uncomfortable and you love them, you will trust them instead of living in doubt all the time, which will be tiring for both parties.
2. No one will obey anyone
Two people will always quarrel over small things in their daily lives. Both sides have strong personalities, and no one is convinced by the other. There will always be a point of victory or defeat. Maybe during your relationship, you would feel emotional when fighting. But when your relationship enters a dull period and the number of quarrels increases, you no longer care about the other person's emotions. Most relationships that differentiate between relationships do not end well because the other person loses their love when they win.
3. Like the cold war and refuse to communicate
As for the manifestation of unhappy marriage, two people will inevitably have a little conflict and friction when they are together, but you always quarrel over trivial things. If you make the other person feel that you are annoying and a bit unreasonable, they will gradually lose all their patience. Some girls also like to quarrel. Instead of solving the problem, they choose to deal with it with a cold war or silence.
You obviously have a lot to say in your heart, but you just don’t want to take the initiative to break the deadlock and just wait for the other party to admit their mistake. But most of the time it's like this: "You are having a cold war and I am also having a cold war." No one paid attention to anyone else. Both sides thought the other was wrong, and no one bowed their heads. In the end, it will only lead to a lot of doubts and thoughts in each other's minds. The opinions of both parties will become more and more inconsistent, the conflicts will become deeper and deeper, and it will become more and more difficult to reconcile.
