If a marriage goes well, the family and everything will be prosperous; if a marriage goes badly, it means everything is going well. When your wife wants a divorce, should you beg her? Beat her? Lie to her? Scare her? Different people have different ways of handling it. If you want to stay in this marriage, here is some discussion of this situation that I hope will help you.
1. The reason why the wife wants a divorce
If the wife wants a divorce, you must understand the fundamental reasons why she wants a divorce. , sometimes the wife may say it, or she may not.
Before dealing with this matter, first think about where the problems in your marriage lie—what conflicts or unusual things have happened in your marriage.
You can also ask your wife directly, why does she want a divorce?
Generally speaking, there are three factors for a wife's divorce: money; sex; and love.
Sometimes, the wife’s divorce may also be caused by other reasons - such as too little communication, incompatibility, separation in two places, cheating...
Make it clear that the wife wants a divorce reasons, so you can come up with solutions to your marriage problems.
2. How to save your wife from divorce
1. Give your wife enough time to calm down. Stalking to get her back won't save her heart, but will deepen her dislike for you.
2. Find out the problems in the marriage. Rather than saying that you can't read and understand a woman's heart, it's better to say that you haven't tried to understand her.
3. During the period when both parties are calm, re-examine the marriage and see whether you have fulfilled your responsibilities as a husband. Have you faced up to and corrected the mistakes she pointed out, such as your poor lifestyle, not being generous enough in your language, not caring enough about her, etc. Only by learning to think from her perspective can you better resolve conflicts.
4. Admit mistakes and solve problems. If you admit your mistake, she may not give you any response, but control your sense of need, use practical actions to prove your determination to change, and never do it again.
5. Examine your marriage and make changes. If you are no different now than you were before, how could your wife accept your attempt to stay?
If you want your present to be different from your past, please study the past. —— Spinoza
3. The legal basis for the wife to divorce
According to the "Civil Code" , if mediation fails under any of the following circumstances, divorce shall be granted: (1) Bigamy or cohabitation with others; (2) Domestic violence or abuse or abandonment of family members ;
(3) Gambling, drug abuse and other bad habits that refuse to change despite repeated admonitions;
(4) Separation for more than two years due to emotional discord;
(5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between the couple.
If one party is declared missing and the other party files for divorce, the divorce shall be granted.
After the people's court has ruled against divorce, and the two parties have lived apart for one year, and one party files a divorce lawsuit again, the divorce shall be granted.
