Dating is the best time to get closer. However, due to lack of experience, many boys not only fail to get closer to a girl after their first date, but also turn the girl's original goodwill into disgust. Below, the editor will teach you some tips on how to quickly get closer to a girl on your first date.
The 1.3-minute Praise Rule
Why do some people always get along with strangers around them within 3 minutes? Get along? Are they naturally familiar with each other?
The answer is of course no.
I don’t know if you have ever observed that people with high emotional intelligence who are good at interpersonal communication will always praise the other person first when facing a stranger. Regardless of whether his compliments are genuine or not, who doesn’t like to hear compliments from others?
Especially girls, they are obviously more comfortable with compliments from strangers.
So when you go on a first date, if you can praise her within three minutes of meeting, she will quickly label you as a person with high emotional intelligence and carefulness.
For example, when you meet, you can look at her from head to toe and then say with a smile:
“You look much better than in the photo.”
"The first time I saw you, I felt that this trip was worth it."
As soon as these words are spoken, the awkwardness of meeting two strangers will be instantly resolved, and it will also make girls feel My next date with you won't be too bad.
2. Plan the dating process in advance
A truly perfect date is planned step by step. Therefore, process planning for the first date is particularly important.
If after you ask a girl out, you don’t know where to go for fun, and you have to ask the girl for her opinion and follow her arrangements, then the girl will probably not meet you for a second time.
Because girls like to be dominated by boys, if you are unable to lead a girl, then she will think that you are not a courageous and independent man, and your male hormone charm will be greatly reduced.
Therefore, you need to have a rough plan before meeting a girl: for example, when to ask the girl to meet, where to meet, where to take her after meeting, what to say, and where to stay. How long, and then where to transfer, how to transfer, and even transfer to your home, you have to arrange these in advance.
Otherwise, if you want to take a girl to eat in a certain restaurant, but you take the girl around because you don’t know the way, causing her to go through a lot of mistakes, then you will be wrong in the girl’s heart. It will leave a stupid and dull impression, and it will be difficult to change the impression in the future.
3. Be as stable as an old dog
On the first date, you must be stable and don’t be too nervous. This is a taboo!
< p> Many boys are very attentive to girls on their first date and try to accommodate girls. For example, they must send girls home or give them expensive gifts.However, this kind of behavior will only make girls feel bad. If you fail to grasp this degree, you will expose your neediness in front of girls and your first impression of you will be reduced.
Therefore, it is recommended that before meeting a girl, you must establish your own mentality and do not kneel down and lick each other.
In the process, you can't always veto your own opinions just to accommodate her. You should express your direct feelings and don't always think that pleasing her is the most important thing. Otherwise, girls will lose their curiosity about you and it will be easy for them to fall in love with you at the first place. She rejected you on the first date
