For some boys who are not good at chatting, they will inevitably feel nervous when dating a girl, which makes the conversation more awkward. In fact, this situation can be avoided. We can prepare the topic in advance before the date. So what is a better topic to talk about on a date?
What is a better topic to talk about on a date?
1. Talk about work
Work takes up at least one-third of our time. If sleep is excluded, it takes up one-half of our time. Wherever you go, the topic is there, and it’s natural to talk about work. But remember, don’t be too formal when talking about work. Just pick some anecdotes that you encountered at work, such as what kind of customers you have met and what weird requests they have made; some interesting things you have encountered while working. etc. Talking about something "new and interesting" is key. Don't complain about the hard work and the dissatisfaction in your heart. No one wants to chat with Mrs. Xianglin.
2. Talk about the latest hot news
Which movie is more popular recently? Which TV series is more popular? Which mobile phone camera software is more powerful? Which app is more weird and fun? What happened recently? A major event that everyone knows? Wait, the reason why it is popular is because everyone is more concerned about it and it can arouse everyone's interest, so if you talk about it, the probability of arousing the other party's interest will be higher.
3. Talk about the ideal opposite sex
This topic is very important for you to understand what kind of opposite sex the other person likes. But this topic depends on the current atmosphere. If you ask it right away, it may be a bit embarrassing. It is best to talk about this topic in a joking tone when everyone is talking and laughing, and the atmosphere is very relaxed, so be sure to choose the right time. Only when you truly understand what the other person likes about the opposite sex can you know whether the two of you are suitable for each other.
4. Talk about future plans
People always have dreams, no matter whether they can be realized or not . Even if you don’t have dreams, you will always have some plans for the future. I plan to improve my spoken English so that I can communicate with customers smoothly; I plan to improve my academic qualifications so that my work can reach a higher level; I really want to travel; I really want to go Volunteer education in the West; I plan to donate blood once a year for 30 years and so on. When the other party expresses, you must learn to praise and affirm in a timely manner, which will make the other party feel warm in their heart, and never just talk about it alone.
5. Talk about good friends around you
Fun and interesting things always happen to friends around you. Telling some stories about good friends can adjust the atmosphere. You can also get to know the other person’s personality or behavioral habits. After all, things are different from each other.People of the same kind are divided into groups. Some people may say that my friends around me have no stories to tell. The problem can only be that you don’t observe and pay attention to them. There must be interesting things, but you just don’t pay attention and don’t remember them. Therefore, if you spend more time and accumulate some information, you will have more material when chatting with others.
6. Talking about childhood dreams
Childhood dreams are usually quite divorced from reality, and precisely because of the innocence at that time, when I think back now, I will have a lot of emotions and memories. The past is also a good topic.
7. Talk about places of interest
Where have you traveled before? Which place is fun? This topic is generally discussed by everyone They will be happy to answer, and it is easy to open up the conversation between the two parties. It is a very happy thing to talk about interesting things encountered or seen while traveling and share them. If everyone is having a good time chatting, you can also mention, "We can go traveling together next time." This will serve as a foreshadowing for further development.
8. Talking about food
Everyone always likes food. Eating, drinking, having fun, eating is the first priority. Talk about what you like to eat, the best food you have ever eaten, where the food is the best, what you cook, what delicious food you have cooked, and what kind of things you have encountered are all very suitable topics. If you are good at cooking delicious food, you can invite the other person, "I will find time to cook it for you next time and let you try it." If the other person is good at cooking delicious food, you can say, "Remember to call me next time you cook it and let me try it." "Come and taste your delicious food" can pave the way for future interactions.
