Instead of chatting on paper every day, it is better to do it on the date. There are two ways for humans to express emotions: language + behavior. This is why no one hates music and dance. If flirting always stays at the chatting stage, it will be difficult to make substantial progress. However, dating is not something that can be done with just one sentence. Sometimes, due to various possible factors, a boy’s invitation is rejected. How should he continue to flirt with girls?
In fact, if a girl is rejected when asking for a date, it must be It's because you didn't handle it properly in some aspects, so let's summarize some misunderstandings about dating girls. Boys must not make mistakes when inviting girls.
Straight men’s invitation
Many straight men are too straight when chatting or dating. Bai rarely cares about girls' thoughts, and doesn't even notice that any of his words have made girls feel uncomfortable. In essence, he is too self-centered. When he invites a girl, he doesn't even ask if she has time. When he asks a girl out, he acts like he is ordering the girl. Of course, it is not okay to date a girl like this.
Buddhist-style invitation
Some boys lack self-confidence, so when asking out girls, they add a little He was so nervous that he hesitated to speak, and he didn't think about how to get the girl to accept his invitation. The girl just accepted it or not and just accepted it. As for where to go, what to play, and how to arrange it, I didn’t think about it carefully. I just took it one step at a time, and felt so casual and perfunctory. How could a girl agree to this?
Scumbag-style invitation
When going on a date, I always hope to have some physical contact, and I always talk about it with a few flirtatious words, as if I want to be sure of the other person. This feeling will undoubtedly put girls on guard, Christopher
Nolan's "Following" once pointed out that "even if you are doing something like a rooster and a dog robber, don't look like a rooster and a dog robber." The same is true for dating. If the atmosphere reaches a certain level, everything that should happen will happen naturally.
Actually, dating a girl requires a lot of prerequisites. First of all, the boy needs to chat with the girl to a certain stage, at least for the girl to put down her guard against you and trust you. Then, when making a date, you should consider in advance whether the girl is free, whether the location is suitable, whether the way of dating the girl is abrupt, etc.