Dating chat is not like WeChat chat. You can send emoticons when chatting awkwardly or when you are bored, or you can simply wait until there is a topic to talk about. If there is nothing to talk about during a date, the awkward situation of "cold spot" will occur. Especially when strangers meet for the first time, the discomfort caused by the cold spot will increase sharply. If you force an awkward chat on the date, it will only make you feel uncomfortable. The girl feels even worse and the next date may be far away because the girl will think you are unpleasant to be with.
Therefore, dating and chatting are also a particularly important key point in a date or blind date. So how do you tease her so that a girl can fall in love with you?
Tips 1: Find the right entry point
Finding the right entry point in chat is an ability that requires a keen sense of touch and a lot of practice. At the right time, open the girl's chat box, and she will start talking endlessly, and then you will find that the girl's conversation will surprise you. However, in this process, the boy still needs to guide the topic and provide guidance. Come up with some constructive ideas and questions, and the chat will become more and more interesting.
Technique 2: Divergent Chat
Many love counselors emphasize the importance of divergent chat . Maybe you and girls are not good at chatting, so when going on a date, boys should be prepared to lead and divergence topics on the date. For example, if a girl has just arrived from work for a date, you can talk about her work, her plans for the future, her transportation method from the company to the date location, and the way she is used to traveling.
Tip 3: Guided Chat
Many chat masters are good at guided chats. If there is no topic, you need to find a topic to guide the other party to communicate. This requires understanding the personality traits, interests and hobbies of the date, so that the topic guided by the boy can be based on the girl's preferences. Guided chat can also lay the groundwork and guide the topic in a direction that is beneficial to you, so it becomes a performance that shows your attractiveness, and it also has a very good role in promoting the development of relationships.
Technique 4: Control the desire for expression
If a person has a certain advantage or strength, he will Show his desire to perform in front of everyone. If you take advantage of this human nature during a date, you can keep the conversation going on forever. If you want to show off, just talk about topics you like. Don’t worry that girls won’t understand or are not interested. If you want a girl to express herself, find her areas of expertise, cater to her long speeches, and explain your point of view. She will fall in love with you, and feel like you are sympathizing with each other and meeting a close friend.
