Be a gentleman; make appropriate physical contact; talk about topics that the other person is interested in; don’t always let girls make choices. The first point is to be gentlemanly. This is the most basic etiquette for boys and the most critical point in attracting girls. A boy's gentlemanly demeanor can not only reflect his education and politeness, but also make a girl feel your respect for her and arouse her favor. Specific manifestations of gentlemanly behavior can include dressing neatly on a date, speaking appropriately when dating, not joking or swearing, and taking the initiative to open a seat for her when eating. Most girls don't like boys who don't speak elegantly and don't know how to deal with themselves. They want boys to dress well, get an education, respect girls, and protect them.
How to flirt with a girl on the first date
Appropriate physical contact
Since this is the first date, it means that the two of them are not very familiar with each other. Even if you really like her, don't be too pushy, but take it step by step and slowly gain her favor. You can have some physical contact as appropriate. If you act too much, not only will you be reckless and impulsive, but it will also make girls think you are greasy and that you are going there with bad intentions, which will greatly reduce your favorability. Make some appropriate contact, and tentatively hold her hand when crossing the street. If she shows reluctance, you should stop. If she doesn't show disgust, you can continue to hold her hand; when the atmosphere is harmonious, you can also touch her head. This behavior is not excessive and shows a kind of pampering.
Talk about topics that the other person is interested in
Dating at the very least means respecting others. Dating should be about communication between two people, not between themselves. Therefore, when talking, you can't just say what you like without considering her feelings. You should learn to create some topics and talk about some topics that interest you both. If you don’t know enough about her preferences, you can ask a few questions, or switch a few topics to see which topics she is interested in, so that you can basically judge what she likes. When you two have a common topic, you can chat about it, it will not be a cold spot, and it can also promote your relationship.
Don’t always let girls make choices
When dating, it is appropriate for girls to make choices, which not only shows respect for her, but also understands her preferences. But if you always let girls make choices, it will easily appear that you are a person with no independent opinions. Moreover, if you always let a girl make choices, she may get bored, so making appropriate choices at this time can alleviate the embarrassment and show that you are more assertive.
