For some people who lack love experience, the first date will be more or less nervous, so it is inevitable that they will feel awkward during the date. Once you fall into this embarrassing situation, it is likely to affect your impression in the other person's mind. So what should you do to alleviate the embarrassment on the first date?
1. Make more audio and video before meeting
Part of the embarrassment of meeting on a first date comes from inappropriate behavior and language, and part of it comes from the feeling of strangeness.
Although we chat with girls online for a long time every day, online and offline are two different things, so when we meet, we often find that the other person is different from what we imagined. In fact, she/he is very strange, and we don’t know it right away. No matter how we get along, I often can’t come up with the lines I thought of.
There is a simple way, that is to have more voice chats or video chats, and become familiar with the other person’s voice and appearance. In this way, even if you meet for the first time, you will not feel that this person is too strange. .
When it comes to familiarizing yourself with your appearance, some people think that just looking at the photos is enough. I feel quite nervous to start the video and don’t want to start it.
Photos are static, so we won’t discuss the issue of P or not. Let’s just talk about the issue of temperament, which cannot be reflected in static photos.
The video is different. The one on the opposite side of the video is moving. You can basically see what she looks like in daily life. So be sure to start a video so that the impression you leave on each other will be almost the same as after you met.
2. Don’t be too polite when meeting
Many boys meet girls on their first date. , in order to leave a good impression, they often behave very politely, greet girls politely, and then proceed with the following activities in a polite manner.
In fact, this is also a big misunderstanding. When we meet a girl for the first time, often your first action and first sentence determine the relationship with the other person in the future, or even in the future. What kind of mentality and image should I use to face you.
For example, if you greet her in a very polite manner, a girl will have the impression that you are well-behaved and serious, and she will treat you with a serious and cautious attitude.
As a result, your date will have to be spent in a reserved atmosphere, which is awkward.
Therefore, when we meet, we can make some very high-profile, cheerful, and funny little moves and opening remarks to set an active tone for girls and directly convey the tension and strangeness of the first meeting. Stifled in the cradle.
For example, these small actions are very good:
You can use it to be very surprised after seeing herCall her name in a loud voice, then raise your right hand high and wave to her;
After seeing her, give her a high-five;
3. Make sure the girls are full before engaging in follow-up activities
This is no small matter! People are not motivated to do anything when they are hungry. If you suffer from hypoglycemia (some girls have a habit of losing weight and are prone to hypoglycemia), even their mood will become very bad. Wherever you want to take her to play, she will say she doesn’t want to go. If you want to chat with her, her mind will go blank. She just wants to follow you silently like a walking zombie (you know why girls sometimes lose their temper after eating) Okay).
Therefore, if you can feed a girl on a date, it is also a technical job, and it is a very valuable technical job. If you don’t let her eat, you will just wait for the date to be messed up...
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But a girl’s appetite has nothing to do with her figure. Some girls have long legs that look like 170 or so, and can leave a large table of food for you. Some girls around 150 are so small and exquisite that they can put you to shame as a man.
