When dating a girl, many accidents and emergencies occur, which can easily cause a boy to lose control of the dating situation, or even fall into an awkward silence, resulting in both people having a very unpleasant time during the date! For example, if a girl is She gets really annoyed when she doesn’t talk during a date, so how do you open her up to talk in this situation?
1. What does it mean if a girl doesn’t talk on a date?
1. Girls like to be passive
Girls can be extroverted or introverted. If they always don’t talk during a date, they are introverted girls. Like Passive, in order to maintain her ladylike image, she gives the boy the full control of the date. At this time, the boy needs to behave well in the date, because in this situation, she will usually try her best to cooperate.
2. Girls are used to being slow to warm up.
Since this is the first time you meet, a girl’s feeling of strangeness towards you cannot be eliminated immediately. This is especially true for girls who are used to being slow to warm up. This situation does not mean that the girl hates you, but it requires an adaptation process. Therefore, the boy should adjust his state during the date to make the girl feel relaxed and natural.
3. Girls don’t like you
On dates, you always say nothing and don’t care about boys. She ignores everything you say, and her words and deeds reveal a perfunctory and coping attitude. When you meet this kind of girl, it's usually because she doesn't like you, so there's no need to put too much thought and energy into dating. Just have fun.
4. Girls are observing you
Some girls are performers, and some girls are observers. Girls who are never able to invest in dating may tend to observe and think. Such girls are generally more rational and not too emotional or pretentious. Therefore, they often have difficulty enjoying the date. Instead, observe your date rationally.
2. What to do if a girl doesn’t talk on a date
1. Adjust the chat topic
Perhaps the content you are trying to chat with a girl is not what she is interested in. At this time, if you change the topic to the girl's points of interest in time, you can easily open her chat box.
2. Liven up the atmosphere
If you are always bored on dates, it may be because the girl is too shy to let go. At this time, make a joke with her, tell a joke, and use humor Liven up the dating atmosphere and make her feel relaxed and natural, then you can open up her chat box and start chatting naturally.
