You can’t hang yourself on a tree when chasing a girl. Many times, even if you like her, you should let her go. Don’t feel sorry for her. After all, if she doesn’t like you, it’s useless no matter how hard you try. So when should you let go of chasing a girl?
When should you let go of chasing a girl?
1. Dealing with errands
Chatting with you will always be perfunctory and then leave, obviously. I'm not interested in you and replying to you is just out of politeness. If you encounter someone who only responds to messages after chatting for a long time or doesn’t respond at all, just let it go.
No one is so busy that she doesn’t have time to reply to messages. In fact, she just doesn’t want to talk to you.
2. Unwilling to be alone
Don’t underestimate being alone. There is a mystery, think about under what circumstances we would still be willing to be alone together? It must be either liking or trusting.
So if a girl doesn’t have either of these things for you, she must be thousands of miles away from you, which is why she talks and laughs at dinner parties but immediately bounces off when alone.
You know, if a girl doesn’t like you, the neediness you expose will only push you into the abyss step by step, making her more and more defensive towards you. Heavy, not even as heavy as a passerby.
3. Can’t make a date
The purpose of chatting is to invite a girl. Girls who refuse to agree to the date are not only shy, but also refuse to date. , that is, not rejecting you.
4. Indifferent attitude
Every time I see you, I treat you with indifference, and look like you are far away from me. In other words, he doesn't want to get close to you at all, and deliberately avoids you. The indifference and disgust can be clearly seen in his eyes. Then there is no need to pursue it.
Many times, you can’t change a person’s prejudice against you. The harder you try, the more counterproductive it will be. The best thing to do is to give each other more space and time and take the initiative to maintain a safe distance. You can't force your love. Some people can't tell you what's good about it, but they will remember it for a lifetime after just one look. But for some people, it may be good everywhere, but in the hearts of some people, no matter how hard they try, they will always love it. Can't like it.
