For men and women who have just started dating, both parties will be cautious when getting along. They are afraid that asking to see each other too frequently will make the other person unhappy; they are also worried that not seeing each other for a long time in the early stage of the relationship will make the other person feel bad about them. Slowly become dull. So how should men and women maintain the frequency of meeting each other in the early stages of dating? If only then could the relationship heat up quickly.
1. Meet every day
For those men and women in the early stages of dating who have the conditions to meet every day, if one party is emotionally dependent and hopes to know the other party’s updates at any time and meet frequently, Then you can definitely see each other every day. If you really love each other, are familiar with each other and have a tacit understanding, you won't feel tired of contacting each other every day.
Here is a very fun and practical method. Treat him or her as your little secretary and tell him or her everything you need to do every day, so that he or she will feel that he or she is around you more. With high value, the things you do will give you a sense of security; and he/she will feel that you are busy, and will not disturb you too much except for necessary reminders, and will not be prone to random thoughts.
2. Meet once every two or three days
If both men and women in the early stages of a relationship are like that People who are independent and have their own ideas may not be able to adapt to the rhythm of frequent meetings in the early stages of a relationship. Because I have been alone before and suddenly fell in love, I have not fully adapted to the life of two people, but not seeing each other for a long time may affect the relationship, so if possible, it is best to meet once every two or three days. It won't make you feel bored, but it can also increase your feelings in a timely manner.
3. Meet once a week
For those men and women in the early stages of dating who cannot meet every day, at least We should meet once a week. Because there is a concept of cycles in the early stages of a relationship, we call it a week of emotions. For example, in the early stages of a relationship, a man and a woman meet on weekends, date together, have fun together, and do romantic things together, but they have to separate before going to work. Then Monday and Tuesday are about missing each other and the good times of the weekend. Wednesday and Thursday are dull, because both men and women are busy with their own work, so there may be less contact. Then there’s the anticipation of Friday, because it’s time for the weekend break again, and both men and women are looking forward to a wonderful weekend date and meeting.
If a man and a woman meet frequently for more than a week in the early stages of dating, maybe you are really in love very sweetly at the beginning, and you will be inseparable when you meet, but When you are lonely for a long time, you will gradually forget about your feelings, and it is easy for others to take advantage of you. This is also the reason why it is so difficult to persist in a long-distance relationship, because it is too difficult to persist and to survive one's lonely time.