When most boys chase girls, they don’t hide their need, for fear that the girl won’t know that they like her. Such behavior is actually very devaluing in the eyes of girls. So how can you chase a girl without revealing your neediness?
How to chase a girl without revealing your neediness?
1. Physical communication of goodwill
Women’s social intuition is very powerful, so there is no need to worry. The other party can't feel it. You feel that she is indifferent to the goodwill signals you send out. Most likely, she just sees through it but doesn't tell you.
In social communication, body language and eyes account for a higher proportion. For example, when you get along with a good friend, the other person can understand your intention with just one look. The same is true when getting along with a girl.
When you look at her with ambiguous eyes, it is impossible for a woman not to feel that you like her. In addition, a girl's receptivity to physical touch can also directly reflect whether she likes you. If the other person doesn't object to walking beside you or your physical touch, it means she has a crush on you. On the contrary, if a girl always stays away from you and doesn't give you a chance to touch her, it means she doesn't like you.
2. Use the frame of love
There will be a concept of frame in any social interaction. You are Whether you treat her as a friend or as a potential lover, the interaction is different. For example, you would definitely not flirt with your leader because you are using an employee vs. leader framework. But if you use ambiguous tones and flirting methods when interacting with girls, it means that you are using the framework of love. A girl can feel your intentions from the frame. Even if you don't express it, she knows what you want to do.
3. Express good feelings directly
The so-called good feelings are to convey to girls that you have a good impression of her, but at the same time Don't make any demands on her, and don't beg her for a response.
Express intention: Your smile is sweet, you look beautiful in a skirt, you have a pretty good personality, and you are quite suitable to be a girlfriend.
Begging for a response: I like you, you are with me, I bought you a gift for Valentine’s Day, I hope you like it.
You express your affection to a girl, but you don’t ask for her response, you don’t cater to her, you don’t please her, you don’t pester her, and you don’t reveal your neediness. It's like, you like sports cars, but you won't go bankrupt to buy one.
When you express your affection for a girl, it means that you are using the framework of love to develop with her. Don't be shy about expressing your affection. A woman doesn't resent a man's affection for her. She just resents entanglement, flattery, and catering.
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