When you reach a certain age, even if you don’t consider getting married, your elders and relatives in the family will urge you. "Why do people get married?" In fact, everyone has their own answer. Let's take a look at the best answer for why people should get married.
The best answer to why you should get married?
1. Probably so that we can discuss things with each other in person, talk nonsense together when we are bored, and have a meal together at the same table after a tiring day. Life is too long, there must always be someone to accompany you. My honest companionship, my down-to-earth thoughts.
2. The reason why people get married is because with him, they can become better.
3. Marriage makes people more confident
4. Marriage makes people more powerful
5. Marriage makes people better able to share
6. Marriage makes people wiser
From the perspective of developmental psychology:
If According to the average person who considers marriage between the ages of 20 and 40, the psychological development stage of the parties should be between "early adulthood" and "middle adulthood."
The main psychological need in early adulthood (18-30 years old) is to obtain intimacy and avoid loneliness.
Intimacy is the close relationship between people, such as friendship and love. This is also a psychological opportunity for many people to look for boyfriends and girlfriends since college and get married at the age of 30. Because at this stage, we need such close relationships and feelings to maintain healthy psychological activities.
Of course, there are many people who only start to consider marriage after the age of 30. On the one hand, it can be understood that people's psychological development levels have different characteristics. Some people advance and others delay. On the other hand, middle adulthood (30-60 years old) still has an urgent psychological need for establishing a marital relationship. It’s just that the starting point of this psychological need may be slightly different from before the age of 30.
