The girl you like has fallen out of love. This is a good opportunity to "sneak in". So how should you comfort her at this time and guess how you can walk into her heart step by step?
1. Stabilize your mentality
The most taboo thing about chasing girls is to expose their need. When the girl you like has just broken up, if you are eager to comfort her, It will only overly expose your neediness and reduce your chances of chasing her. Moreover, since she has just broken up in love, negative emotions will definitely wrap her up, and it will take some time to get over the emotional trauma. Your comfort at this time will not make her feel better. Although this seems to be a very warm and gentlemanly behavior, your comfort will only strengthen her psychological awareness: I am unhappy, I am sad, I am sad, and I am depressed. Not only does it not have a positive effect, The comforting effect actually aggravated her negative emotions of sadness and sadness.
2. Listen to the companionship
Girls will definitely be sad when they fall in love. Don't ask her "Why did you break up? Why did you break up?" "So sad and sad," she should be allowed to cry enough at this time to vent the negative emotions accumulated in her heart.
1) When she takes the initiative to talk to you, you don’t need to say or do anything. You just need to listen carefully and nod in response occasionally. At this time, it is best to accompany her and listen carefully. of comfort.
2) If she says she wants to get drunk or sing karaoke, then just stay with her to meet her requirements and let her vent her emotions to her heart's content.
3) Also remember that it is enough for you to vent with her once. Don’t listen to her endlessly every time, otherwise you will inadvertently become an emotional trash can.
If she keeps mentioning her ex-boyfriend in front of you, then you should take the initiative to change the topic or make your position clear. You can say to her: "Don't bring up the past anymore. I don't want to see you sad." Sad look. If you want to successfully attract her curiosity and affection towards you, you must dare to say no and challenge her initiative.
< h2>3. Provide good emotionsWhen a girl’s emotions stabilize, it is best to bring her positive energy and happy emotions, so that unpleasant things can be relieved in her heart as soon as possible. When her emotions Being happy will only dilute the sad memories, but in other words, it can create memories between you.
Then how to provide good emotions?
If a girl can't resist. If the girl is a foodie who is tempted by delicious food, then you can take her to explore delicious food together; if the girl is an artistic young woman who loves art, then you can take her to see a movie or an art exhibition; if the girl is more reserved and introverted, Then you can take a walk or climb a mountain with her to relax.
