There are relatively few girls who are truly aloof in life. Most of them are just aloof towards you because they have no interest in you. Therefore, before flirting with a cold girl, it is difficult for us to judge whether she is really cold or just pretending to be cold. So how do you chat with an aloof girl and what do you do if you can’t find a topic?
"Negative" chat method It is very suitable to be used when facing aloof girls. On the one hand, it can make us stand out. Unique things are often more likely to attract attention. On the other hand, it can also make girls feel that you are not a malicious person. However, excessive and unreasonable negation can be counterproductive, so please pay attention to the following points:
1. Negation should be moderate
Moderate negation is to use humor and ridicule to express the status quo. , rather than making insults and sarcasm towards others. When we meet a girl with a beautiful appearance and a first-class figure, she will not lack suitors around her, and she will not hear too few compliments. If you only say that you are so beautiful and good-looking, then girls will definitely ignore you. To deny is to do the opposite and tell her that you are not very beautiful and have an average figure.
This way of chatting expresses two messages: you have seen too many excellent girls; you don’t have excessive needs like other boys. Doing this will keep your status balanced when interacting with her.
2. Be polite when denying
No matter what the situation, we should ensure the most basic courtesy . We cannot talk about other people’s flaws, families, friends, and beliefs. If none of these can be said, how should we deny her?
A girl’s nickname, avatar, and friend circle display are all good choices. We can deny them and let girls feel that you are different. When a girl starts to respond to you in the same way, it means that the purpose has been achieved and she has gradually become familiar with you.
3. Negation should be timely
Negation does not mean that we are teasing and suppressing girls at any time. When she shows interest in you, don't deny her anymore. For example, when she has lowered her guard and conveyed her good feelings, but you say, "We've only been chatting for a while and I need to call you, are you so casual?" the girl will instantly lose all interest.
This method is for reference only and cannot guarantee 100% success. If you are pursuing a girl who doesn't get much attention, then you should give her attention. If you are a popular girl, the methods mentioned above can help you stand out.
