To chase a girl, you must first get to know her, and if you want to get to know her, you need to chat. However, chatting is not about any topic. So what topics are better to talk about when chasing a girl?
1. Talk about her growth process
Everyone has a different growth process, choose to grow Talking to girls through this topic is a sure-fire choice. And actively grasping one's own growth process means wanting to grasp this person, wanting to grasp her past, and also wanting to guard her future. If you are chatting with a girl you like, you can mention your growth process from time to time, you can talk about you when you were a child, and you can also tentatively ask her about her past and what her childhood was like.
By talking about the growth process with girls, you can understand the environment in which women grow up, you can have a deeper understanding of women’s temperament, and you can dig out more common language from the text. At the same time, you actively ask about her growth process, let her feel that you have been trying to control her, are willing to step out of her, let her experience your affection and seriousness, and gradually open her heartstrings.
2. Talk about her hobbies
Many people think that "flattery" is a derogatory term. But in the early stage of love, I think flattering is a better choice. Because chatting must keep the entire atmosphere non-embarrassing and considered happy, so that it can continue. During the chat, talk about the other person’s favorite things and her hobbies. I think these topics are not outdated after all, and this method can also shorten the distance between you and my sister. Usually try to actively ask her what she likes to eat, what kind she likes, where she likes to travel, what she likes to do when she is bored...
3. Talk about your own emotional experiences< /h2>
Can you ask the girl: I have a question and I would like to ask your advice. My friend has been dating this girl for 3 months, and recently this girl moved in with my good friend. Then this girl found out that my friend was still in a classmate relationship with his ex-girlfriend. Do you think so about this? Can you get angry? These things. When such words are raised, any normal girl would have a lot of advice to say.
4. Talk about yourself
If you are short-sighted, you can ask a girl: Do you think I look good wearing glasses? ? Get my myopia glasses and carry them with you. Maybe she looks good in glasses, so you can invite her to help you choose glasses for myopia.