Should you pursue her again after being rejected on a blind date? The answer to this question actually depends on you. If you don’t like her very much, you can give up. If you are rejected and still feel that you can’t let go, then it is still necessary to keep fighting and pursuing.
Blind date itself is a passive way of understanding. It does not develop as quickly as free love. Through understanding, familiarity, and slowly You may be able to feel something if you get to know her better. It is very rare to fall in love at first sight. I think this girl now just treats you as a familiar stranger or an ordinary friend. After all, you have not known each other for a long time. Marriage Can you be rash about a life-long event? If you have feelings for her, then take the initiative, but be careful about the size, don't push too hard, and let's get to know her for a while.
Of course, if the other party is really not interested in you, then you must first face this reality, and then analyze the reasons, and then Try to understand as much as possible what kind of person the other person is, what kind of life and emotional experiences he has, what kind of temperament and character, what kind of living conditions he has, and what kind of opportunity can be used to intervene in her life. When facing her When she refuses, what tone and words should I use to keep myself in her life circle reasonably, and how to improve her already formed view of me, so that I can ultimately guide her to see the version of herself she wants. Of course, this process will take a long time, and it also requires sufficient communication skills, expression skills, and psychological endurance.
You know, girls who go out on a blind date are not only forced by their parents, but they are also eager to find a partner. Moreover, women are emotional animals, and persistent efforts will eventually impress her.
However, before continuing to pursue, you must first reflect on yourself, improve your communication skills, enhance your own cognition, and clarify Why you were rejected, what kind of person you will meet, what kind of love you will have, are inseparable from the person's current social experience, knowledge, personality, life status and attitude, personal values, and emotional outlook. Only when you are mature enough and confident enough can you have the capital to attract girls.
Then, we will have a certain understanding of her character, background and experience from many aspects. After all, blind dates are all aimed at getting married, not just talking about love casually. Only by knowing yourself and the enemy can you be invincible in every battle.
When you meet again, there is no need to hide the good or bad from her. After all, both parties in love are transparent and there is nothing shameful.
