It is a very common thing for boys to chase girls, but some boys will make some priceless behaviors during the pursuit, which will not only make girls feel disgusted with them, but also lower their own image. Let’s take a look at the behaviors that boys tend to lose when they chase girls.
1. Disrespect for girls
When boys pursue girls, if they do not respect girls’ wishes and feelings , forcibly expressing one's love or interfering with a girl's private space will make the girl feel violated. This kind of behavior will not only disgust girls, but also give people around them a negative impression of boys.
2. Being too enthusiastic
Although enthusiasm can show a boy’s care and love for a girl, excessive enthusiasm can also make girls feel stressed and uncomfortable. For example, behaviors such as frequently sending messages, making phone calls or making appointments, or even stalking girls can make girls feel harassed.
3. Hypocritical performance
When pursuing girls, some boys will deliberately change their personalities and interests to please girls. This kind of hypocritical performance not only deceives girls, but also makes boys lose their personality and charm.
4. Lack of self-confidence
If a boy lacks self-confidence when pursuing a girl, he will always show nervousness and uneasiness, which will make the girl feel that he is unable to protect her. This kind of behavior will make girls suspicious and distrustful of boys.
5. Irresponsibility
If boys do not have clear goals and plans when pursuing girls and just play with their feelings casually, girls will be easily hurt. This kind of irresponsible behavior will make girls lose confidence and respect for boys.
When chasing girls, boys should pay attention to their words and deeds, respect the girls' wishes and feelings, maintain their true personality and self-confidence, set clear goals and plans, and assume corresponding responsibilities. Only in this way can you win the heart of girls and improve your image and value.
