Although many people now use blind dates to find their significant other, there are also many people who are very disgusted with blind dates and want to find a partner through free love. So which one is more reliable, blind date or free love?
Which is more reliable, blind date or free love?
Some young people today like free love because they like two people very much. The fun of being together, the feeling of being with the one you love. Free love can be said to be a protracted battle, and most relationships last for a long time. After two people have been in contact for a long time, they understand each other and can clearly understand each other's hobbies. The emotional foundation gained in this way is relatively solid. Looking back on the time of love many years later, it is another beautiful memory.
However, free love also has a big disadvantage. If you want to achieve success, you have to go through various "tribulations", which is a bit far from reality. Originally, two people felt fine together, but when it came time to talk about marriage, there would definitely be various conditions, and the relationship would fall apart if they disagreed. At this time, because both parties have a good emotional foundation and understand each other very well, they will have a more willful mentality. Maybe the ending will not be so happy.
As for blind dates, whether you have been on a blind date or not, you know very well that it is directly for marriage, and the wishes of both parties are It is also unified. If both parties feel good when they meet for the first time, the relationship will be in a budding state. Everything can be negotiated through the "middleman", and the chance of getting together in the end will be higher.
The biggest disadvantage of blind dates is that it is difficult to understand the other person’s personality and character in the first place. And there is not much time to test whether the two are suitable for each other. Especially in recent years, as long as the blind date is successful, marriage is not far away. Everyone’s living habits are different. Suddenly some things will be embarrassing. Everyone will have some bad habits, which will be difficult to accept for a while. Free love is relatively better in this regard, and it is only after running in. Come together. If you can't get along, break up, which is much simpler than divorce.
In the final analysis, free love and blind date are just a channel to get to know each other. One is to get along first and then get married, and the other is to get married first and then get along. No matter how romantic it was when you first fell in love, you have to return to daily necessities in the end. If you want to find true love, the channel is not important. What is important is to know what kind of person you are, how mature you are in relationships, and how you treat marriage.
