Many boys think that as long as they are rich, girls will definitely like them. But many rich boys can’t actually find girlfriends. Why is this?
In fact, girls pay great attention to feelings. It may be because they don’t call you, or it may be because of some of your behaviors. It disgusted her. So when chasing girls, what are the wrong behaviors that will make girls avoid them?
1. Blind confession
There is a type of man who, when pursuing a woman, will confess his love to the woman in public. He is happy and prepares candles and flowers, and then suddenly confesses his love to the woman in a crowded place, hoping that the people around him will agree with her. Forcing women to agree to themselves is actually the most wrong thing to do. Many women don't like your approach. Even if they have a good impression of you, they will reject you because of your approach.
2. Wishful thinking and being moved cannot buy love
The most taboo thing in relationships is wishful love. The other person obviously has no feelings for you, but you still blindly love him. The other person is nice, but girls don’t appreciate your favor at all. Love is inherently mutual. If you only give it yourself, you will feel exhausted in the end and you will not feel happiness at all. Love should be beautiful, there is no need to make yourself undignified.
3. Don’t understand women’s thoughts
Many men don’t understand women when they are pursuing them. You know how to pursue a woman. You obviously gave her gifts and took her to dinner, so why doesn’t she agree to you? At this time, you should think carefully. Maybe if a woman is not like these at all, women sometimes Want is actually the sense of security you can give her, so before you pursue a woman, you should first figure out what she wants, which will make it much easier.
4. Moral kidnapping of women
Some men believe that if they give to a woman, then she must accept his pursuit. This is a moral kidnapping. These are obviously You are willing to pay for it yourself, and no one is forcing you to do this, so you have no right to ask a woman to accept your pursuit, because sometimes pursuing a woman does not mean that you will be rewarded for your efforts, this is not A proportional one.
5. It’s so important to be a good match
The big reason why a boy and a girl get along so well is because You two come from similar backgrounds, and sometimes it has nothing to do with whether you like them or not. In fact, it is always important to be a good match. If your family environment, work environment, living environment, etc. are very different, then it will be difficult for you to get along with each other for a long time in the future.During the process, problems can easily arise.
Chasing girls is not as simple as imagined, sometimes you have to pay attention to fate. Maybe you are good enough, but she just doesn't call, so naturally she won't like you. Chasing a girl is not only about expressing love, but also about understanding the other person's needs and what she really wants, so that it will be easier to get out of singles.
