A sense of security is very important for women. In love, if your girlfriend cannot feel a sense of security, she is likely to do some irrational things. So how to make your girlfriend feel safe in love?
1. Learn to listen to her feelings
I think the reason why relationships fail is because of quarrels. During the quarrel, the listeners lose patience and the speakers lose confidence.
In love, what girls need is to talk and accompany them. Girls are easily dominated by emotions. At this time, being a good listener is worth a thousand words. For example:
(1) She said she was very tired at work in the company and felt aggrieved by the boss’s remarks. Just give her a hug and don’t say “Did you do something wrong?”
(2) When she says she is unhappy, ask her what happened. Don’t say, “Why are you unhappy again? Who messed with you?”
(3) What did she say? , just listen quietly, what girls need is not your big principles, but that you are always there when I need you.
2. Pay attention to her feelings
"I need you" "I miss you" sometimes It is not a shameful thing to take the initiative to show your favor to a girl. Girls long for the feeling of being needed. You can be a girl’s armor and protect her from wind and rain. And you want the other party to know that she is your safe haven. Use your actual actions to Prove that you really love her. For example:
(1) Give a girl a nickname of love, baby, honey, little cutie
(2) Ask a girl to help you do some small things, and praise her and she will Very happy
(3) Take the initiative to accompany girls on outings and ask girls how they feel
(4) Ask girls for their opinions and actually implement them
< p style="text-align: center;">3. Show your childishness and vulnerability appropriately
"Why do I always feel bad every time I cook?" You are so awesome, I lost." Taking the initiative to show weakness in front of girls can inspire girls' maternal brilliance. They like to take care of others, build confidence in girls in love, give in to her more, and don't argue about who pays more. Pay less, there is no winning or losing in love, only management.
4. Keep a distance from other people of the opposite sex
In the eyes of girls, girls other than her (except your mother) have a purpose for being nice to you, so the opposite sex around you Don’t have too many friends and don’t contact them too frequently.
Of course, there is nothing wrong with making friends of the opposite sex, but you have to exercise caution. Friendships at work or etiquette are reasonable and reasonable, but please do not exceed the boundaries of friendship.
