Everyone has a different attitude towards love, so in psychology, these manifestations are subdivided into many personalities. Today, the editor is going to educate you about avoidant attachment personality. Let’s see if you are avoidant. Type of attachment personality.
Six characteristics of avoidant attachment:
1. I like secret love
I am very eager to get it, but I don’t dare to get close. First, I feel that I am not worthy. Second, once someone wants to get close to me, I will feel very uncomfortable; even if they really tell me that they like me, I will be bored.
2. I don’t feel safe
I can’t trust others, so in fact I don’t have true friends. Even if I get married because I’m older, I’m still alone in my heart. , I only believe in myself.
3. I can’t give to you
I can’t give too much because I don’t have much myself. You have 100 shares of love, and you are willing to give me 50 shares. I am grateful to you, but I only have 1 share, but I dare not.
4. I hide not because I hate you.
I don’t speak because I don’t like you. On the contrary, because I am really considering following you, now you have reached the gate of my defensive castle, and I am very torn about whether to let you in or not.
5. I can’t express my needs
I can’t directly express my needs, so If you understand me, it is easy for me to give up something. There is nothing I must not give up, but it is too difficult for me to say what I want.
6. I cannot be too intimate with my partner
I am not used to having particularly close contact with my partner, even if it is an ambiguous period or a formal relationship, I Neither of them will accept too much physical contact with their significant other. This does not mean that I don’t like you. I may like you very much, but I really can’t adapt to too close contact with you.
Of course the most important thing is that as long as you don’t like me, I will like you for a long time.
The above are the characteristics of avoidant attachment personality that the editor brings to you today. After reading this, you must all know it very well. In the next issue, we will talk about how to fall in love with avoidant attachment personality. So don't forget to follow me. See you next time.
