First of all, we must understand that the world that many people understand is not the real world, but substituted prejudices. For example, the label "fatty" is a shackles placed on you by the world, not the real you. In fact, whether you have any hope of chasing a girl does not depend on whether you are fat, but on whether you can impress her.
If the girl you are chasing cares too much about your appearance, is she worthy of your love? It is not recommended to pursue a girl who only defines you by her appearance.
How do fat guys chase girls?
1. Girls are emotional in the final analysis, and the standards they think are actually It was given to her by someone else, and she subconsciously felt that it was what she thought. For example, in the TV series, the other half should be like that, and she uses this as a standard. In the TV series, it becomes like this again, and her standards have changed again. When the day comes when all male protagonists in TV dramas are fat, then the fat man will definitely be the most popular. So a woman’s standards are defined by others!
2. But there are some boys who are really the most popular regardless of whether they are fat or thin. They are good at talking and coaxing. I believe that with a man’s mouth, a sow can climb a tree. Although a woman knows this truth, she just likes to be coaxed and deceived. Why? Because some people pay attention to her and some people value her.
3. If you feel inferior because you are a "fat man", then you can insist on exercising every day to lose weight while chasing girls. Fat, regard the love for girls as motivation to lose weight and improve the beauty of the body.
4. Chatting is an inevitable part of chasing girls, and the role of chatting is to communicate with each other, make each other familiar, give a sense of security, and make girls feel cared for during chatting. Because in many cases, love as defined by the world is actually a kind of care. Therefore, when fat people are chatting with girls, they should not keep thinking about whether they are fat or not, and just talk.
Is there any hope for a fat man to chase girls?
Girls instinctively prefer boys with strong abilities. Regarding appearance, Not that seriously.
Stop thinking like a loser. Being fat is always a loser’s excuse. Believe me, this excuse will also be used in the future: no money, no car, no house, not handsome, not strong in expression skills, and doesn’t understand women. heart blah blah blah.
So you understand - whether you have any hope of chasing a girl has nothing to do with whether you are fat or not. If you think you are fat and worry that you will not be able to chase a girl, it can only mean that this is your failure in life. One of the excuses.
