Why is it that no girl likes an honest boy who is not bad or even a good person? In fact, the answer is very simple, because girls simply don’t like such a person, and such a person has no value in the eyes of girls. of.
Generally our attraction can be divided into several modules:
Either you have good appearance and good image Good temperament; either your economic conditions are good, your social status is high, and others can enjoy a better life with you; or you have unique strengths or skills, such as particularly good eloquence and high emotional intelligence...< /p>
If boys want to attract girls, just one of these three items is enough; if they have two items, they will basically be able to keep girls around them; if they have all three items, then they basically don’t need them. If you consider pursuing a girl, you just need to appear in the girl's sight and leave the rest to them.
So have you noticed? It’s really hard for an honest boy to get one of them. Unless the girl is extremely lonely and can’t find a partner, otherwise she is basically unlikely to consider it. Be with a boy like this.
Many so-called love skills, many routines and methodologies are essentially trying their best to improve one thing: thinking Methods can increase the pleasure a girl feels with this boy when "getting along".
But why do so many people use these methods so ineffectively? The reason is simple: because the most basic conditions have not been improved, no matter how strong the pleasure is when getting along, when the relationship is finally determined, it will not be at all Useless.
So if you want to increase your attractiveness and give yourself more options and value points when choosing a mate, there is really no shortcut -
Any It has nothing to do with improving one's own value. It is just a practice of constantly adding details and performance. It can only make girls want to get along with this boy, but it does not make girls want to establish a relationship with this boy.
As long as a boy has the appearance, economic conditions, and special skills, you will find that the girl group is extremely tolerant of them - even if the boy is not that gentle, or even has a bad temper. Okay, but there is still no shortage of people who like them.
Therefore, compared to girls, it is really much easier for boys to attract the opposite sex. Even if a girl has good financial conditions but poor appearance, it will still be difficult for her to choose a mate, but for boys, this problem seems to be much less difficult.
Therefore, if boys are not willing to calm down and think about what is attractive about themselves at this time, how should they improve themselves?Attractiveness, it is so normal to be unable to attract girls.