Many boys will only use the trick of being nice to a girl when chasing a girl. They think that as long as they are nice enough to a girl, they can chase her. However, many times being too nice to a girl will only make the girl feel pressured. Your meticulous care , but it may be a kind of torture in the eyes of girls.
Especially when a girl doesn’t have much affection for you, if you just blindly treat her well, you may be criticized. As a spare tire.
To chase a girl and want her to be attracted to you, you must learn to attract her. What you have to do is change your previous chatting methods, tone and attitude, and then attract her through your chatting.
Most of the time, girls respond with "um, ah, oh". This is because your chat is too rational and boring! Girls have no desire to continue chatting. The more you talk, the more annoying she will be to you.
A good way to attract girls is to make them curious about you. Therefore, "attraction + curiosity" is the first skill you must master.
Let me give you an example for comparison
General situation:
Female: Moments are visible for three days?
Male: Yes , I don’t like to post on Moments. (The reply was boring and I ended the topic myself)
Female: Aoao.
Attraction + Curiosity:
Female: Will the circle of friends be visible for three days?
Male: Do you want to see my photos again?
Female: Not interested
Male: HD uncensored 68 yuan
Female: You are stealing money
(Girls react normally and start to be curious)
Male: Suddenly I discovered a characteristic of you
Female: What characteristic (girls are interested in this)
Male: I told you not to beat me (continue to attract)
Female: I will beat you only if you don’t tell me
Male: It’s too violent, I saw it wrong You're attracted (continue to attract)
Female: I've misjudged something, please tell me
Male: I I found out that you are very diligent and thrifty
Girl: I was discovered by you, haha, your photo is not worth the 68 yuan I spent
(If a girl becomes humorous, it means you have aroused her emotions. , continue to attract her)
Male: Then I have to work hard
Female: Work hard? Why work hard
Male: You know how to live, of course you have to work hard. You marry her home
Girl: Hum, you want to be beautiful
Boy: I know, that’s why I have to work harder!
(borrowedMachine-implanted ambiguity to make her heart beat faster when chatting with you)
Constantly arouse girls’ curiosity when chatting, thereby amplifying girls’ interest in chatting with you, and then bring girls’ emotions through attraction and curiosity Use the opportunity to release ambiguous information instead of just trying to please, so that girls will want to keep chatting with you.
