Otaku, also known as "house squatter", "lazy man" and "hidden person"... refers to people who often live in small spaces, refuse to socialize and participate in society, and live in self-isolation.
Obviously it is difficult for otakus to find girlfriends, because they usually hide in corners without any expressiveness or attraction, and girls usually don’t pay attention to otakus. If an otaku wants to find a girlfriend, he must first change himself!
How to change yourself as an otaku
1. First of all, homebodies should change their habit of staying at home and participate in more outdoor sports, parties, socializing, etc. Outdoor exercise is a good way, such as running every morning, etc., which can not only exercise but also overcome the habit of staying at home.
2. Get rid of the habit of playing e-sports and watching anime at home. Otakus usually stay at home and do these things, but the fun they bring is often very little, and it is easy for people to lose social contact. ability.
3. Otakus rarely take the initiative to contact others, so the way to change themselves is to contact more of their friends and classmates, but don’t limit it to chatting on social software, you can participate in more usual gatherings.
4. A common problem of otakus is low self-esteem. Due to their lack of strength, they often feel inferior and shy, and are not confident when communicating with others. In fact, there is nothing to be afraid of when communicating with others. Just try your courage more. Practiced it.
How otakus find girlfriends
1. If you want to find a girlfriend, otakus must first adjust Socially, if you don’t know girls, how can you get a girlfriend? If everyone stays at home, then love will not happen! If you don’t have contact with others for a long time, it is easy for people to feel weird in social interactions, and you will adapt to being an otaku. When socializing, you can have the prerequisite to find a girlfriend-get to know some girls.
2. The reason why many otakus are single is the lack of resources of the opposite sex. Generally speaking, they know so few girls that they can count them all on one hand, so that everyone looks pretty and has collected resources of the opposite sex. There are two types of methods: one is to show yourself online through social software; the other is to attend gatherings offline, strike up more conversations, and participate in social interactions.
3. Falling in love itself is about mutual attraction. A toad eating swan meat is completely wishful thinking. Even an otaku will like it. Goddess, not dinosaur girl. Putting it into perspective, female otakus will also give priority to boys with stronger strength, so otakus should prioritize improving their own strength.
4. It is not difficult to get to know girls. The key lies in how the otaku can get closer to the girls and develop the relationship from ordinary friends to lovers. This requires dating to gradually promote it.
