Many boys are confused as to why they can't always catch the girl they like, but other boys seem to be able to catch girls easily, and they don't know the reason. Why can't I always catch up with girls? Let me analyze the specific reasons for you:
Why can’t you always catch up with girls?
First , lack of chatting experience
If you rarely have contact with girls, have never chatted with girls, and don’t know what kind of topics to talk about, this long-term lack of communication and interaction with the opposite sex, It will cause you to be very nervous when facing the girl you like, and when you are nervous, you will not dare to get close.
If this is the case, you need to have more contact with girls, chat with girls more often, and gain more experience in chatting with girls, so that you will not be nervous when you meet a girl next time If you don’t know what to do, your success rate will be much higher.
Second, you cannot attract girls
We have always said that girls do not rely on chasing, but on attracting. In the process of getting along with a girl, if you don't let her see your value from the beginning to the end, the girl will naturally not give you a chance to get close to you. Think about it, you don't even have a chance to get close. What other girls are you chasing, and why are you single?
In this case, you need to find your own shining points according to the girl’s needs. For example, if a girl likes to play King of Kings, then you can help her to get higher points and fly; for example, if a girl likes romance, Then take her to a couple's restaurant for a date, give her a surprise on Valentine's Day... these are all things that can impress a girl.
Third, you often make mistakes when chasing girls
There is a saying that not making mistakes is equivalent to gaining extra points. , so in the process of contacting girls, your words and deeds are very important. If you always make some small mistakes in front of her, it is okay once or twice, but if you do this for a long time, your impression in the girl's mind will be bad. It will be a big discount, and she will find it really boring to get along with people like you.
If you don’t know what mistakes you shouldn’t make when chasing girls, you can come to me and give you a list of things you shouldn’t do when chasing girls. The above lists some things to pay attention to when chasing girls. If you can avoid If you make mistakes, you will avoid many detours in the process of chasing girls.
Okay, I’ve listed all the reasons why you can’t catch girls. I hope everyone can avoid the above mistakes. Now you should know what to do!
