Quarrels are inevitable between lovers, but sometimes after the quarrel, the girlfriend becomes unable to listen to anything. How should boys deal with this situation? Here are some suggestions.
1. Calm down
When a girlfriend becomes unwilling to listen to any suggestions or explanations after a fight, the first thing a boy should do is to calm down. Getting emotional will only complicate the problem and may lead to further deterioration in the relationship. Therefore, boys need to give themselves some time to calm down so that they can deal with this problem rationally.
2. Listen to her feelings
When the boy calms down, he can try to actively listen to the girl Friends’ feelings. Even if your girlfriend doesn't want to talk at the moment, a boy can understand her inner thoughts by observing her expression and body language. Doing this can make your girlfriend feel valued and understood, thus re-establishing a bridge of communication between the two parties.
3. Apologize and take responsibility
If a boy finds that he is at fault in a quarrel, he should apologize to his girlfriend in time and take responsibility. This can not only relieve the girlfriend's emotions, but also show that the boy understands his mistakes and is willing to make changes. At the same time, a boy can also make suggestions for solving problems to show his emphasis and efforts on the relationship.
4. Give space and time
Sometimes your girlfriend needs some time to calm down and think about things. At this stage, the boy should give her enough space and time and not interfere too much or ask questions. Doing this can make the girlfriend feel the boy's respect and consideration, and at the same time create opportunities for both parties to re-communicate.
5. Seek third-party help
If your girlfriend is still unwilling to listen to the boy’s explanation or advice after the quarrel, the boy can consider seeking third-party help. This could be a mutually trusted friend, family member, or professional counselor. The intervention of a third party can provide objective views and suggestions, thereby helping both parties better understand each other and find solutions to problems.
6. Keep communicating
No matter whether the girlfriend is willing to listen to the boy’s advice after the quarrel, the boy should keep communicating. This does not mean blindly arguing or asking questions, but expressing your thoughts and concerns in appropriate ways and at appropriate times. Sometimes a girlfriend just needs more time to accept and understand a guy's perspective, and consistent communication can provide an opportunity for both parties to re-establish trust and understanding.
When your girlfriend can’t hear anything after an argument, the boy should calm down, listen to her feelings, apologize and take responsibility, give space and time, seek help from a third party, and insist on communication. These practices can help guys reconnect with their girlfriends and resolve their issues.
