Many boys may have discovered that a second ago a girl told you that she was going to sleep, so you had to say good night to her, end the chat with her, and say good night to her. When you were checking Moments before going to bed, you found that the girl who told you that she was sleeping was still posting on Moments or giving likes to others on Moments. Do you feel that you were deceived by the girl? Why do girls say they’re asleep but still post on Moments?
1. Girls don’t like you that much
There is a saying that after a modern good night, it is often a person’s own carnival. Maybe the girl just doesn’t like you that much, or she and she Your relationship is not to the point where you can talk about it all the time. If this happens, just choose not to see it. It’s better to know some things mentally. There is no need to say it out and don’t bring trouble to yourself. Let nature take its course. If you can develop it in the end, develop it. If you can't develop it, don't force it.
2. Girls don’t want to chat with you anymore
In fact, when girls say “sleep”, they mean they don’t want to. After chatting with you, I want to play games or read novels alone, or... I just don't want to chat with you... Maybe she doesn't like you, maybe the content of your chat is boring and she is not interested, or... Wouldn't it be more fun for her to play on her phone by herself? So when a girl says she's asleep, it's probably just an excuse to end the chat with you. As for whether she's asleep or not, everyone knows it. Of course, you can also participate in her comments and chat in Moments in real time. As long as you are not embarrassed, others will be embarrassed.
3. Girls have insomnia
Maybe girls really do a good job of sleeping when they tell you they are asleep. She was ready, but when she was about to go to bed, she found that she couldn't sleep and had insomnia. What else could she do at this time, of course, scrolling through Moments and sending messages. If this is the case, then ask the girl if she has insomnia and if she would like you to tell her a sleep story, say some goodnight words, etc. This can also bring you closer invisibly.
4. Girls’ normal bedtime behavior
In fact, girls have a lot of preparation before going to bed. After sleeping, there is nothing wrong with playing on your phone, eating some fruit, making a facial mask, and then going to bed. Maybe boys will think that a girl is trying to mess with you if she says she's asleep but still posts on Moments, but many girls will think this is normal. And when you are not in a relationship, you are not qualified to give advice on her bedtime life. At this time, if you question her about why you didn't sleep, it will appear that you are straight, which will affect your relationship. At this time, you might as well ask her, "Are you awake so soon?" It just shows your care and trust in her.
In fact, mostBoys will be a little discouraged when they find that a girl says she is sleeping but is still posting on Moments, and feels that the girl is perfunctory. Don't draw conclusions blindly at this time. No matter what the girl's psychology is, just pretend not to know, and it will be the same the next day. Chat with a girl, as long as she is still willing to chat with you, you will be successful.
