Many boys will use the hard-to-get method in the process of chasing girls to achieve the goal of successfully chasing girls. But girls are not fools. They will also use hard-to-get methods to ignore you and keep you unpredictable, which makes many boys unable to figure out a woman's true intentions. Let me share with you the ways in which women play hard to get? Decipher what women really think.
1. Deliberately slow to reply to your messages
If a woman is willing to chat with you, but after you send her a message, she will not reply to you immediately even though she is free. I am deliberately slow to reply to your message. At first you may really think that she is busy, but if you think about it carefully, you will realize that there is a problem. After all, people nowadays basically never leave their cell phones without them. They have to take them with them when going to the toilet. How could she not have time to reply to your messages? As for a woman who is playing hard to get with you, even if she sees your messages, she will reply to you later on purpose. Of course, the purpose is to hang you and show that she is very cold and make you feel cold. You are worthless and have been waiting for her news.
2. Sometimes enthusiastic and sometimes cold
A woman who plays hard to get will also behave toward you sometimes enthusiastically and sometimes coldly. cold. If you chase her too hard, she will deliberately be cold to you, making you feel that she is not someone you can easily chase; if she feels that you are starting to get discouraged, that it is too difficult to chase her, and wants to give up, At this time, the woman will take the initiative to become enthusiastic about you, such as taking the initiative to send you messages, taking the initiative to ask you on a date, etc., to give you some sweetness first, so that you will not give up pursuing her.
In such a situation, it feels like a man is a kite in a woman’s hand, while a woman holds the string of the kite firmly in her hand. The string is sometimes tight and sometimes loose, and everything is under the woman’s control. middle.
3. Refuse to express love but not refuse your kindness
A woman who plays hard to get at you is actually a little confused. She is not willing to accept your confession and confirm her relationship with you, nor is she willing to cut off contact with you directly, because she also enjoys your pursuit. To put it bluntly, it means refusing to confess but not rejecting your kindness. It kind of means treating you as a spare tire.
Because a woman who really likes you is actually eager to be with you right away. What she hopes is to be with you all the time. If you stick together, they won't play any hard-to-get tricks on you. Therefore, if you find that a woman is trying to get you, it is recommended that you first judge whether she really wants to arouse your interest, or whether she is using you as a spare tire, otherwise you may end up with nothing.
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