Many boys like to stalk girls when they are chasing them. They chat with the girl every day and even say hello to her every morning and evening. But in fact, this is really not necessary.
When chasing a girl, pressing her step by step and chasing her fiercely will only make the other party defensive. Heart, saying hello to her every morning and night is just giving her a reason not to like you.
When chasing a girl, chatting with her every day and saying hello to her every morning and evening is like replying to a girl’s WeChat message instantly. It overly exposes the sense of need and breaks one’s own frame.
When you can reply to a girl instantly on WeChat messages at any time, then you are squeezing your own independence, breaking boundaries, and integrating you into her world. If a girl never thinks about letting you integrate into her world, and you break your own framework, you will completely lose the initiative.
Even if you pursue success, the expectations you set for a girl will become very high. Maybe at some point you will not be able to respond to her instantly, and you will not be able to meet her expectations that you have raised. . The consequence of unsatisfied expectations is that she will break the balance in her heart, mistakenly believe that the relationship between you has deteriorated, and become suspicious. This is laying landmines for future relationship stability!
A girl who likes you will not think that you don't like her or value her just because you don't reply to her immediately. A sensible girl will never have such an idea.
Therefore, it is completely unnecessary to chase a girl and say hello to her every morning and night.
Many boys feel that when they are pursuing a girl, they like to maintain the habit of chatting with her a few words every day, so as to increase their sense of presence, otherwise they will easily become strangers.
But how could a girl who likes you feel that you have left her out just because she hasn’t spoken to you for a day? She will not leave you out because of this.
If a couple is in a relationship, it is completely understandable to contact each other every day and say hello to each other every morning and evening. , but there is really no need for this in the pursuit process.
Occasionally, I don’t talk to her for a day, leaving the girl some free time. For a girl who has a crush on you, only by experiencing the feeling of losing you and letting her longing ferment can she understand how she feels about you.
Although you need to know how to close the distance when chasing a girl, you also need to know how to maintain a certain sense of distance. After all, distance can produce beauty and attraction.
