Why do you chase girls? Why should girls accept your pursuit? These desires, motivations, and reasons for falling in love are actually based on a reward mechanism of the human body-dopamine. Dopamine is related to human desire and feelings, and it conveys information about excitement and happiness. In addition, dopamine is also associated with various addictive behaviors. In other words, dopamine is the essence of people being controlled by desires, emotions, and feelings!
1. Dopamine threshold
< p> When we come into contact with a new desired person of the opposite sex, the brain will secrete dopamine, prompting us to have a relationship (get close to her, get to know her, understand her, touch her).But when our desires are satisfied, the secretion of dopamine will reach the threshold and stop secretion. Therefore, the "honeymoon period" can only last for a short period of time. Soon after the couple gets married, They will get bored with each other.
Dopamine can bind to the adrenergic receptors and dopamine receptors of the human body. Large doses of dopamine can cause the body's blood pressure to rise, cause hypertension, and even cause serious harm such as stroke. It can also make people susceptible to Anger cannot control emotions, and some may cause irreversible damage to the nervous system. Therefore, the human body cannot continue to secrete dopamine, which is why the existence of a dopamine threshold is necessary.
2. Use the dopamine mechanism to chase girls
Girls cannot be chased, but attracted. , when you can stimulate girls to secrete dopamine, that's the moment to attract girls!
Due to the existence of dopamine threshold, there is also "theoretical support" for poaching, so don't do it because of the girl you love. Once you have your sweetheart, you should give up the idea of ??pursuing them. Most girls' inner love is a kind of "admiration for strength", which is why little girls like uncles - uncles are burly, mature, and financially well-off...
Caring, helping, thoughtfulness, and warmth can stimulate girls to secrete corresponding dopamine, but at the same time, if you expose your sense of need and make girls feel that you are profitable and purposeful, it will make girls feel that you are profitable and purposeful. She's disgusted, so chasing girls requires enduring resilience.
3. Dopamine makes girls excited
Dopamine will regulate girls’ desires, emotions, feelings, etc., so In the process of getting along with a girl, trying to stimulate her desires, emotions, and feelings is the best way to make her excited!
This is also why girls like humorous boys, because humorous boys can easily Stimulate her emotions, make her secrete dopamine, and experience the pleasant "reward mechanism". Due to the nature of seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages, girls are more willing to chat with humorous boys.
Many girls also expressed that theyIf you are a foodie, then in this regard, you can also use dopamine to make a girl feel attracted to you - buy her snacks.
