In reality, there are many couples who have been in a state of separation and reunion. They broke up because of various unhappiness. When they broke up, the two people were very tense and even said a lot of cruel words, saying that they would never look back. But not long after, one party came back to apologize and ask for reconciliation. This is indeed a very contradictory thing. A couple wants to break up when they are together, but miss each other again after breaking up. They break up and get back together many times, and the relationship cannot be broken up. Can such a relationship last long?
Can a relationship that is always on and off last forever?
Yes.
Being separated and reunited many times does not mean that you are inappropriate, but it means that you are true love. It is just because you did not get along well and did not establish a comfortable way of getting along and communicating, so There will always be various conflicts, and there is nothing you can do to solve them.
We are inherently contradictory, so it’s not just like this in love. It’s like many people who clearly want to lose weight, but after two days of losing weight, they can’t resist the temptation of delicious food.
There are also some people who want to improve themselves and buy a lot of books, but after just half an hour of reading, they are still confused. I couldn't help but want to watch dramas and videos, and I comforted myself by saying that I should balance work and rest. There are many examples of this, not that these people are not persistent enough, but that they themselves are contradictory.
Reason tells him to persist, to be abstinent, to work hard, and to be restrained, but on the other hand, desire will tell you that you can take a break, relax, and do it again.
Therefore, a relationship that is always on and off can still last for a long time, because it is not that the two parties no longer love each other, it is just that they have not adjusted well, let alone found the correct way for you to get along.
