In fact, women are willing to find decent men as partners, because only decent men are reliable. But the reality is that women are often attracted to bad men, while no women are willing to favor serious men. So do you know why too serious men can't find girlfriends?
1. Men who are too serious don’t understand women’s hearts
Women will like men who are humorous and understand her thoughts. Such men are more in line with women’s thinking, and if a woman is too serious If you are serious, you will not be able to grasp a woman's thoughts. Women will usually clap their hands and say to you: I'm sorry, you are a good person. Although you may be a suitable partner for a woman, she just can't have feelings for you, so many men who are too serious are dealt the good guy card.
2. Men who are too serious don’t know how to be flexible
Men who are too serious don’t know how to be flexible. It feels a bit stupid, making women feel that they don't understand themselves, and it will be tiring to communicate and have heart-to-heart conversations. What a woman cares most about in a relationship is her own feelings. As long as you make her feel that you are not her ideal person and that you don't understand her and she doesn't understand you, then she will feel that the two of you are no longer in contact. It's necessary. Therefore, women will always unconsciously stay away from men who are too serious. This is something that men themselves need to reflect on.
3. Men who are too serious don’t know how to chat
When looking for a girlfriend, the most important thing is to chat with her and deal with women. If you don’t know these, other conditions will be useless! Men who are too serious are used to old-fashioned ways of chatting. They use a very formal tone when chatting with anyone, which makes a woman feel that she does not have the feeling of being in love, and then she will not be able to chat with you. And it is impossible for a serious man to learn the way of chatting from bad men. On the one hand, it is difficult for him to convert himself, and on the other hand, he cannot accept the way of thinking of bad men at all. I can’t say there’s anything wrong with being serious, I can only say that you haven’t met the right person yet!
Four. You can’t rely solely on being serious to find a girlfriend
It’s true that if a man is not bad, a woman will not love him. It’s not just talk, it’s been proven in practice. You think you are too serious, which may be an advantage in getting a girlfriend. But the reality is that you think you're too serious, but you don't have a girlfriend at the same time, so you ask this question.
In fact, it is your misunderstanding. You only see these two points, but you ask if it is not easy to find. Then I can only tell you that these two advantages are not enough for you to find, that's all. But it’s not that these two conditions make it harder for you, in fact, it makes it easier for you to find.
Summary: Do you have a girlfriend? Don’t be too serious about looking for reasons. That's right, thumbs up. Look for reasons from other aspects. Is it that I am not good enough, capable enough, or have not cultivated enough in all aspects? shouldImprove your abilities in all aspects.
