I believe that many boys have encountered such a situation when getting along with girls: when chatting with a girl, the other party becomes unhappy for no reason, and they have no idea why she is unhappy, let alone How to coax. The editor below will teach you how to deal with this situation.
1. Why girls are inexplicably unhappy
For the kind of girl who is unhappy and doesn’t tell you The situation, nine times out of ten, is related to you. For example, you ignore the girl’s feelings, say things that the girl doesn’t want to hear, and do things that she hates. For example, you don’t reply to the girl’s messages in time, and you are absent-minded when chatting with the girl. You need to know Girls are very sensitive and insecure. If you do not pay attention to her performance, whether you do it intentionally or not, the girl will be infinitely amplified and become angry with you, seeking your attention and care in this way.
Since girls are prone to emotions, it is easy to be troubled and unhappy because of trivial things in life. She just wants to be quiet and digest it slowly and she will be fine.
Also, if a girl is unhappy, she is actually acting coquettishly towards you and wants you to chat and play with her, but she doesn’t. It's not that she's really unhappy, she just wants you to coax her into saying something she likes to hear.
You must know that girls have a certain number of days every month, which is their menstrual cycle, so sometimes girls are inexplicably unhappy because they are in a bad mood due to menstrual pain.
2. How to coax a girl when she is unhappy and doesn’t know the reason?
When a girl is unhappy for no apparent reason, and you don’t tell her why when you ask her, then it is futile to continue asking, and if you If it's not a relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend, then you can deal with it appropriately and let her calm down. Don't rush to find her. That will easily reveal your neediness and become a girl's licking dog.
When you notice that a girl is unhappy, you must ask her why she is unhappy as soon as possible, and learn to lower your body to coax her and comfort her. Don’t feel that you are exposing your need here. Because you need to let the girl see that you care about her, and generally girls' emotions are relatively short-lived. If you can try to have a voice chat or face-to-face chat with the girl, let the girl realize that this is just a small problem.
If we really can’t guess why the girl is unhappy and the girl doesn’t want to say it, then we can take the girl shopping and She goes to eat and drink delicious food. Sometimes a girl's troubles and happiness are very simple and easy to achieve.
When a girl is unhappy, if she wants to say something, she should listen more and talk less. Be a good listener. Of course, you can also divert the girl’s attention.Don't keep a girl in an unhappy state. You can tell her some humorous jokes to make her happy, so that she can get out of her unhappy situation, and everything will be fine.
