In fact, there are many girls in big cities. Because big cities have natural resource advantages, many job opportunities, and good conditions, they attract many high-quality young men and women to work in big cities. So since there are so many women in big cities, it stands to reason that it should be easy for boys in big cities to get out of singles, so why can't many outstanding boys in big cities find girlfriends? Do you know why?
Why can’t good men in big cities find girlfriends?
1. Outstanding men in big cities are more selective in finding girlfriends
Since they are outstanding boys in big cities, they generally have a sense of superiority. Of course there are many girls who like them, but Because their conditions are relatively good, he has very high requirements for his partner. This requirement includes not only appearance and figure, but also conversation and cultivation. I once talked with some people about their views on love. What’s interesting is that they often value a girl’s independence, knowledge, cultivation, and sensibleness. Many people mentioned being sensible, so we can focus on that. It can be said that there are very few girls with such conditions, and they also have to have good looks. I can't help but wonder: Do girls like this really exist?
Over time, outstanding men in big cities have become the type of people who find it difficult to find girlfriends. In fact, their problem is that they cannot achieve high and low. If they can be downward compatible and find a girlfriend, , it is still very easy to get out of singles, it just depends on whether they are willing.
2. Not really outstanding men from big cities
Some boys think they are outstanding men from big cities Men, maybe you feel good about yourself, but it doesn’t mean that others also think you are excellent. In reality, you may be: sloppy, poorly dressed, with a short body and a thick waist... This is not the most terrible thing. The most terrible thing is that you feel very good about yourself and daydream every day: I am excellent, and I am the best. So if you’re not in love, it’s because you haven’t met the right person yet!
But if you are really good, with Wang Sicong’s wealth, Guan Xige’s good looks, and Bao Qiang’s acting skills... can you still be single? To put it bluntly, he is not good enough. It doesn’t matter if he is not good enough. He still feels very good about himself, and he goes around lamenting: Why can’t some good men in big cities not find girlfriends? This is purely your own imagination of excellence and cannot be recognized by others, especially girls.
Summary: If they are really outstanding men from big cities, they are generally the product of a high degree of self-discipline and self-confidence, no matter in career or life. Life has detailed plans and requirements, and it is highly planned. Correspondingly, their requirements and conditions for finding a girlfriend will also be very demanding. So it's not that they can't find a girlfriend, but whether they can find a girlfriend who suits their needs is more difficult.
